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Why would someone attempt to hurt your feelings for trying to help them?
CallMeBabe
It's a defense mechanism some people use. Some people just want to be left alone, help is not always wanted.
Another view:
Sometimes the person is not trying to hurt your feelings, but is reacting to something that hurt his or her feelings.
A bit more:
Emotions are such a complex thing that it's quite easy to misunderstand the other person, and to misinterpret the words and/or actions of the other person.
First, you need to stop and ask yourself if you really believe this person was trying to hurt your feelings. It's been my experience that if a person really does want to hurt another's feelings, it's a success, not an attempt. So by the question itself, it implies the "attempt" was not successful, therefore, maybe there was no attempt even made. So again, go back and ask yourself if you really believe that person was indeed attempting to hurt your feelings.
And you should also ask yourself if the person you feel attempted to hurt your feelings believes you were honestly trying to help them, or if there was more involved. It's also been my experience that people don't usually attempt to hurt the feelings of someone who was sincerely trying to help them.
The best way to resolve this in your mind is to go back over all the events from start to finish, then, being completely honest with yourself, give serious thought to each event or incident as it occurred. That should then give you the answer you seek.
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