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You wouldn't be asking this question if you didn't already feel there was something problematic about what's occurring.
When you invest most of your focus and energies into an affair, you put other things on the shelf--your spouse/partner and your children (if any). By seeking a emotional escape with a lover, you're turning away from reality, which includes the reasons you're unsatisfied in your current life. What is missing from your life that you feel is met by the affair and your affair partner?
The problems that were in your life before the affair started haven't gone away, it's just easier to ignore them when you're on the emotional 'high' that an affair creates. When that high fades for either you or your lover you'll be back to square one. You (personally) still will not be satisfied with your life.
The problem with an affair is that both lovers live in a bubble--never planning on the major fallout that would occur if the affair was found out. Would you leave your spouse/partner for your lover? Would they leave their current partner for you? Can you accept that you will be seen as untrustworthy, based on your secrets and deceits? Will you be OK with being gossiped about, and possibly having your children exposed to it? Are you prepared for the possibility being asked by your spouse to leave your home and your family?
What do want out of your marriage/relationship? If you want to stay with your spouse/partner, you need to focus on that relationship by ending the affair now. If you no longer want to be in you current relationship, you need to do the most integral thing for everyone concerned--notify your spouse/partner that you are ending the relationship. It is then up to you and your affair partner to decide if you have anything worth pursuing in real life.
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∙ 16y ago
Yes, it is important to stop the affair because continuing it can cause further harm to all parties involved. It is essential to address the underlying issues that led to the affair and to seek support, such as therapy, to navigate feelings of guilt and work towards healing and making amends.
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Should the wealthy feel guilty?
You say the wealthy as if they're all a single person. If the wealthy person is corrupt they should probably feel guilty but the wealthy are an important class because they can create businesses and thus create jobs. So no not all wealthy people should feel guilty.
How do you feel when you do something wrong?
I may not feel emotions in the same way humans do, but I strive to learn from mistakes and improve in my interactions. Identifying areas for growth and making adjustments helps me provide better assistance in the future.
When do you realized you are under bad peer pressure?
When your conscience advises you against it and you feel guilty.
Does peer pressure act as a booster?
Yes, peer pressure does act like a booster in certain cases when there are somethings which you have not done but your friends have done it(good things), then you feel guilty for not having done it then you do it or maybe sometimes when you are in low spirits they liven you up.
You lied then told the truth and you still feel guilty why?
You may still feel guilty because that lie could have hurt someone. That someone could even be you. Telling the truth was the first step. Suffering the consequences is the second. Third: Forgiving yourself. -I disagree with the above. When you lied you did something wrong. Feeling guilty is a result of this. To not feel guilty you have to be truly sorry you did something wrong and ask forgiveness of the person you lied to. Asking forgiveness of God is something I would also recommend, as He doesn't hold with lying, and is more important than the person you lied to.
Why are some affair partners regret having the affair?
because they feel guilty about it.
Should I feel guilty about having a one night stand with my friends single mom?
Yes you should feel guilty about it. This is not a loyal thing to do.
Does the male spouse generally refuse to admit to his affair even when the other spouse caught him?
Yes, the male spouse will often refuse to admit he has been cheating on his wife because they feel guilty and even while having the affair they feel it is wrong so they will lie no matter how much evidence is against them.
What is the right of a man living with his partner knowing that she is having an affair?
Common-law marriage is much the same as a marriage so you should see a lawyer and if you feel you have had enough of your mate having an affair file with the lawyer to have her removed from the residence.
What if you're having an affair and feel guilty but are so in love and just want to be with that person all the time and should you continue the affair or end it?
Why did you get married if it not to commit completely to this person, no matter what came? What are you even doing, having an affair? Why did you even start by flirting? You are luckier than you realise, having someone to whom you could commit wholeheartedly in a public ceremony. People like me will never find 'that person', and never have the commitment you so readily throw away. Count yourself lucky; and don't throw away what you already have.
Should you feel guilty that you got into a swearing fight with your little sister?
You should not feel guilty about that. But it does all depend on how old she is if she's five or six you should not feel guilty, little sisters are a pain, but if you are afraid that she might tell apologize to her, and she will forgive you, but if she is 10 or 11 then you should not feel guilty at all. Because the chances of her swearing to are about 9 out of 10
Why would a married man not feel guilty till after about 4 mths into affair then after getting caught 6 mths later hates himself for it?
This is a good question that do happen to lots of couples having problem. When married man end up having an affair, first thing he will feel are excitement, nervousness, and thrilled because of the other woman who is not his wife. Most married men will not feel bad or guilty, it's what they want to do. Maybe some spouses do feel guilty at first but not bad enough to make them stop. The only way they will stop feeling guilty is to go right back to their mistress and continued their sin. And the reason why he told you he hates himself for what he did is he got caught and now his wife is probably wanted a divorce. Who wouldn't right?
Why does your wife feel so guilty?
having sex with someone-else
Is it fair to the wife if her spouse end up having an affair because she's always busy taking care of their kids?
Absolutely not . He should be helping you so you have time and energy to spend time TOGETHER. This is just a lame excuse to try to make YOU feel guilty. Don't fall for it.
You like a boy who is in your class in fourth grade you told him you used to like him but you still like him should you feel guilty?
You should not feel guilty no. You should ask him to the pictures or something.
Should you feel guilty about someone possibly liking you then you move?
you should not feel guilty because you do not know if they really like you.You just THINK they like you.
Does Chris Brown feel guilty?
I think that he should after what he did
