What was the status of single women in Puritan society?

Answer 1

Puritan culture emphasized the need for self-examination and the strict accounting for one's feelings as well as one's deeds. This was the center of evangelical experience, which women in turn placed at the heart of their work to sustain family life. The words of The Bible, as they interpreted them, were the origin of many Puritan cultural ideals, especially regarding the roles of men and women in the community. While both sexes carried the stain of original sin, for a girl, original sin suggested more than the roster of Puritan character flaws. Eve's corruption, in Puritan eyes, extended to all women, and justified marginalizing them within churches' hierarchical structures. An example is the different ways that men and women were made to express their conversion experiences. For full membership, the Puritan church insisted not only that its congregants lead godly lives and exhibit a clear understanding of the main tenets of their Christian faith, but they also must demonstrate that they had experienced true evidence of the workings of God's grace in their souls. Only those who gave a convincing account of such a conversion could be admitted to full church membership. While women were typically not permitted to speak in church, they were allowed to engage in religious discussions outside of it, and they could narrate their conversions.

The English Puritan William Gouge wrote: "�a familie is a little Church, and a little commonwealth, at least a lively representation thereof, whereby triall may be made of such as are fit for any place of authoritie, or of subjection in Church or commonwealth. Or rather it is as a schoole wherein the first principles and grounds of government and subjection are learned: whereby men are fitted to greater matters in Church or commonwealth."

Order in the family, then, fundamentally structured Puritan belief. The essence of social order lay in the authority of husband over wife, parents over children, and masters over servants in the family. John White wrote in his Genesis commentary of a wife as "but a helper", a view called "typically puritan" by Philip C. Almond.

Ideas of proper order both sharply defined and confined a woman's authority. Indeed, God's word often prescribed important roles of authority for women; the Complete Body of Divinitystated that "�as to Servants, the Metaphorical and Synecdochial usage of the words Father and Mother, heretofore observed, implys it; for tho' the Husband be the Head of the Wife, yet she is an Head of the Family."

Samuel Sewall, a magistrate, advised his son's servant that "he could not obey his Master without obedience to his Mistress; and vice versa."

Authority and obedience characterized the relationship between Puritan parents and their children. Proper love meant proper discipline; , the family was the basic unit of supervision. A breakdown in family rule indicated a disregard of God's order. "Fathers and mothers have 'disordered and disobedient children,'" said the Puritan Richard Greenham, "because they have been disobedient children to the Lord and disordered to their parents when they were young." Because the duty of early childcare fell almost exclusively on women, a woman's salvation necessarily depended upon the observable goodness of her child. Puritans further connected the discipline of a child to later readiness for conversion. Accordingly, parents attempted to check their affectionate feelings toward a disobedient child, at least after the child was about two years old, in order to break his or her will. This suspicious regard of "fondness" and heavy emphasis on obedience placed pressures on the Puritan mother. While Puritans expected mothers to care for their young children tenderly, a mother who doted could be accused of failing to keep God present. A father's more distant governance should check the mother's tenderness once a male child reached the age of 6 or 7 so that he could bring the child to God's authority.