Where should a Christian receive counsel?

Answer 1

A:

You haven't (and shouldn't) said what kind of counselling you seek. However, it seems the issue on which you seek counselling is in some way related to your religion.

If the issue is of a general nature, and if you trust your pastor or priest and believe him to have tact and ability, perhaps he should be your first call. Otherwise, there are other counselling services that, although non-religious in nature, would try to take into account your beliefs. They could probably be found in your area from the telephone book.

If your issue is contentious or involves another Christian, perhaps it is the other way around, as the pastor or priest may be too close to the issue, or too involved. If this is the case, definitely use the telephone book and find a non-religious counsellor.

Answer:

First and foremost, pray and ask God to help you and give you wisdom. God is the best person you can get help from. Second, talk to your parents. God, many times, uses parents to advice us and instruct us. And, depending on the situation, consult your pastor.