Okonkwo's disapproval and harsh treatment towards Nwoye, due to Nwoye's perceived weakness and differences in character, cause Nwoye to feel alienated, resentful, and eventually lead him to distance himself from his father and embrace Christianity when introduced to it by the missionaries. Okonkwo's rejection and lack of understanding of Nwoye's emotions and needs ultimately drive a wedge between them.
Okonkwo disowns Nwoye when he converts to Christianity. Okonwko originally assaults Nwoye when told of Nwoye's association with the Christians, resulting in Nwoye leaving the compound and joining the Christians.
Okonkwo disowns Nwoye after he joins the Christians, claiming Nwoye is no longer his son, no longer his children's brother. Okonkwo tells his children, "You have all seen the abomination of your brother."
Okonkwo has three wives:The first is unnamed and is mother to Nwoye and Obiageli.The second wife is Ekwefi who leaves her husband for Okonkwo and mothers Ezinma.The last wife is Ojiugo, mother of Nkechi. She is also the youngest and is beaten for getting her hair braided, neglecting the job of making dinner.
Nwoye denies that Okonkwo is his father after Ikemefuna's death, as he is deeply affected by the event and begins to question his relationship with his father. This moment marks the beginning of Nwoye's alienation from Okonkwo and his traditional beliefs.
Ikemefuna had a significant influence on Nwoye in Chinua Achebe's novel "Things Fall Apart." Ikemefuna served as an older brother figure to Nwoye, providing him with guidance and companionship. He introduced Nwoye to new ideas and perspectives, ultimately leading to Nwoye questioning his father's strict beliefs and traditions. Ikemefuna's presence catalyzed Nwoye's internal conflict and eventual rejection of his father's values.
Ezinma was Nwoye's half sister. Both of them share the father of Okonkwo, but Ezinma's mother is Ekwefi; Nwoye's mother is Okonkwo's first wife.
If between his father and his mother, Nwoye prefers his mother's stories to his father's war stories. Later on, Nwoye prefers the stories of the Christians.
Okonkwo's first wife's child was Nwoye, so she had a major influence on raising Nwoye, whether it be suckling from her breast, or originally birthing him.
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Yes, Nwoye is a boy in Things Fall Apart.
It isn't known if Nwoye's emotions extend to hate. Indeed it seems somewhat unlikely as Nwoye appears to try to reconcile with his father later in the novel. If Nwoye does indeed hate his father Okonkwo, reasons might include:Okonkwo frequently beats Nwoye, and the rest of Nwoye's brothers and sisters.Okonkwo is too stereotypically manly, and discourages Nwoye's feminine pursuits including his love of stories.Okonkwo kills Ikemefuna.Okonkwo nearly kills Ekwefi, another symbol of his brutality.Okonkwo forces Nwoye to leave the household when he shows an interest in Christianity.Okonkwo threatens to kill Nwoye if he ever sees him again.
Nwoye had converted to Christianity, forsaking the gods of his father and his father before him.