Potty Training

• Preparation for toilet training is a major key to success. Before toilet training your child, create a baseline chart documenting your child's bowel and bladder frequency and accidents as well as their rate of fluid intake for 3-5 days.
• Commitment and consistency are important parts of toilet training. Start training when you have at least two days in a row that are fairly calm and routine and when you will be committed to toilet training your child all day.
• Having the right equipment makes training easier and more interesting for your child. Start by buying several pairs of underpants, let your child pick them out if he likes characters on them. Training underpants are much thicker than regular underwear and work well with plastic pants over them. Only use pull-ups over underwear. When used alone, pull-ups prevent the child from having an uncomfortable, wet sensation. Extra pants that can be easily slipped on and off are also helpful. During training, use clothes that will be easy for your child to get on and off such as sweat pants, shorts, shorter skirts with elastic waists, etc. If using a potty seat, one that fits on the toilet works best as it can be difficult to transition from a potty chair to the toilet.
• Create a picture schedule for your child by taking pictures of all the steps of your child's toileting routine. Include hand washing. Write numbers on the picture in the sequence they are performed. This schedule should be reviewed with your child 2-3 times a day at a time when they do not need to use the bathroom. Once they begin to improve the review can be faded to one time per day and eventually faded completely. Teach everyone who will be doing toileting with your child the same routine so your child has consistency. The toileting routine should always be done the same way from start to finish.
• Choose a word to indicate going to the bathroom that will be used in your family long term. Ask your school to use this term also. Children get confused when being asked about going to the bathroom when people use many different terms. Using a word that your child can use their entire life is preferable and prevents having to re-train a new word.
• Once the preparation is over, start the first day by dressing your child in their new underwear right away. Using pull-ups or plastic pants over the underwear will minimize leakage. Using the baseline chart as a guide, at the scheduled time, take your child to the bathroom and have him follow the picture routine. As you child goes through the toileting process, point to the picture schedule using minimal language. Give the least amount of assistance possible for each step. This will promote success and lead to independence once the steps are mastered.
• When you take your child to the bathroom, check to see if he is dry and praise him with a phrase like "yeah dry pants!" If he has an accident, tell him in a neutral voice, "no wetting or "no poop in pants".
• Have your child sit on the toilet for 3 minutes at a time using a timer or First/Then transition aid to let him know when he is done. Stay in the bathroom with your child so he feels safe and comfortable. If he has trouble sitting for the 3 minutes, provide a toy, sing him a song, or give him a book.
• If he goes to the bathroom and was dry praise him and give him a motivating reward such as a favorite snack, blow bubbles or give him a favorite toy. If he goes to the bathroom but was wet or soiled, only praise him for going to the bathroom. If he was dry but does not urinate or have a bowel movement, praise him for being dry only. Rewards for toileting should be very motivating and only used for toilet training. If your child begins to get bored with a reward, change it. Rewards should be enough that they are reinforcing, but not so large that your child will become easily satiated with the reward.
• When your child has an accident, tell him "no wetting." Show him the picture schedule and take him to the bathroom following the complete sequence. Have him sit for two minutes using the timer. If your child goes to the bathroom, praise him but do not give him a reward. When your child has an accident, you may want to have him take his dirty clothes to the laundry room. You should also have your child get dressed by himself with the least amount of assistance possible. At no time should you scold your child or be punitive. As your child improves, rewards can be faded.
• As your child stays drier for longer periods, increase the time before taking him to the bathroom by 15 minutes. Your goal will be to fade these times to more natural times such as first thing in the morning, before lunch, after lunch, after school, after dinner and before bed. You will also be working towards your child initiating toileting on their own.
• For bowel movement training, take your child to the bathroom at the times the baseline chart indicates they have a bowel movement. Have them sit for up to 20 minutes using the timer or transition aid. Make the environment relaxing with books or calm music. Stay with your child so they feel safe. Follow the same reward procedure as for toileting.
• Bowel training is best started when a child has regular bowel movements and does not soil at night. Do not allow children to sit in wet or soiled clothes for long periods. Allowing them to remain wet may desensitized them. If they are not uncomfortable when wet or soiled they may lose their motivation to be toilet trained.
• Do not be overly concerned about night time accidents. Many children do not master this until they are eight.
• this info can from http://www.theautismprogram.org/toilet.asp

It is not too early to start potty training a child at 20 months old, but it may be challenging as they are still developing physically and emotionally. It is important to be patient and follow the child's cues to determine readiness.

No, taking off a diaper is not necessarily a sign that a child is ready for potty training. It can be a sign of curiosity or discomfort with the diaper. Look for other signs like showing interest in the toilet or staying dry for longer periods to determine readiness for potty training.

It is common for young children to have difficulty with pooping on the potty due to various reasons such as fear, discomfort, or a lack of control. This behavior may be a temporary phase and can be addressed with patience, encouragement, and positive reinforcement. It is important to create a supportive and understanding environment to help your child feel comfortable and confident in using the potty for all their needs.

To encourage your child to consistently use the potty, try using positive reinforcement, such as praise or rewards, when they successfully use the potty. Establish a routine and remind them to use the potty regularly. Make the potty training process fun and engaging by using colorful potty training tools or books. Be patient and supportive throughout the process.

To encourage your child to successfully poop on the potty, you can create a positive and supportive environment by praising and rewarding them when they use the potty for pooping. You can also establish a routine and schedule for potty breaks, provide a comfortable and child-friendly potty chair, and be patient and understanding throughout the process. Additionally, it may be helpful to involve your child in the process and make it a fun and engaging experience.