How do you know if your abusive ex-husband has changed and should you believe him when he says the biggest mistake of his life was losing you and he will do anything to be back with you?

Answer 1

You know he has changed when he has been through counceling at least 6 months and the therapist agrees he is no longer his old self. If he says he didn't need therapy to change, don't fall for his crap.

AnswerEvery abusive man says that when he is faced with the reality that he has pushed away people that he thinks he loves. The question becomes, what REAL man would actually hurt the people that he loves. A REAL man is supposed to PROTECT his wife and family from harm. There is just no excuse for that kind of behavior.

Once a man crosses that line there is no possibility that he can ever be trusted again.

AnswerYour right. That's what I have been thinking. Im spose to meet him tonight and I havent seen him in a year and half. I feel like hes already starting the maniupulation. He is trying to get me to tell him where I live. I wont meet him. The trust and respect is so far gone. I cannot go because a part of me loves him, i have to remain logical.