Feminine; as a general rule, words that end with "ette" or "enne" or "emme" are feminine
Poil is masculine in French.
the has no gender in french considering you say the girl or the boy in English it would be LA fille ou LE garçon in french
Or is "ou" in French.
une canne en bonbon, une canne de Noël, ou encore un sucre d'orge.
ennuyeux (masculine) or ennuyeuse (feminine) (pronounced on-we-yer/ on-we -yers) eg un homme ennuyeux ou une femme ennuyeuse
Où est le café means "Where is the cafe?"Notice that I changed your "la" to "le". This is because café is a masculine noun.
'Ou se trouve ....?' or 'Ou est.....?'
beau (handsome / beautiful) grand (big / tall) souriant (smiling) chaud ou froid (hot or cold) nerveux (nervous) joueur (playful)
ou
un if the word is masculine or una if the word is feminine
"or" is translated "ou" in French.
Ou la la means "oh my"; "ou" does mean "or" in French but not in this context as it is the combination of letters needed to make the sound in French.