The Kings of Egypt were not called Pharaohs by the ancient Egyptians. This word was used by the Greeks and Hebrews, and today is commonly used for the ancient Kings of Egypt. It is not known how many kings ruled in Egypt, for at times in its ancient past the country was split up, and there were at least several kings at the same time - plus there were most likely be rulers before recorded history. Given this qualification the answer would be Aha of the 1st Dynasty. Prior to this we have Dynasty 0 which obviously would have had 'rulers' but it has not been possible to decipher their real names and there is great uncertainty as to which of these individuals were actually rulers.
Menes married a woman from the other side of Egypt (Lower I do believe).
BOTH!
Narmer also known as Menes ruled upper Egypt and was able to control lower Egypt and unite them both.
Hatshepsut was the first woman to be a ruler of Egypt
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King Menes
The ruler who is credited with uniting Egypt around 3200 BCE is King Narmer, also known as Menes. He is often regarded as the first pharaoh of unified Egypt, establishing the First Dynasty and marking the beginning of the Early Dynastic Period. Narmer's unification is symbolically represented by the Narmer Palette, which depicts his victory over the lands of Upper and Lower Egypt.
Lower Egypt
The 1st Egyptian ruler of all of them was Menes. He conquered Lower and Upper Egypt. He was very strong and courageous. Everyone was very proud of the King Menes. :3 Hugs and Kisses!
No she was the 7th queen of Egypt though.
Cleopatra
Africans were the first rulers of Egypt. The Ethiopians, Nubians and Somalians.