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If you wish to avoid a fraternity, avoid "rush week" or the week that fraternities try to recruit new members. Simply don't show up and they'll never know you exist. Sometimes though, if you are a high-quality student, and you're friends with members of a fraternity or pledges of a fraternity, you may be asked to join.

If you really do not want to be in a fraternity, as is the case with many people, simply say, "No." Most will take the hint, but if they ask why, give a legitimate, truthful reason as to why, like, "I need to focus on my studies," "I can't afford it" or even, "I'm not interested." They'll understand, and back off.

99.99% of the time, fraternities won't bother you about joining because most of them will have met their recruitment quote during rush week, and if they know you're not interested, then they'll leave you alone. They have better things to do then bother someone who's not interested.

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