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"Gaslighting" is a nifty little manipulation trick that narcissists use to confuse you. This one I felt was particularly "fascinating." For example, my ex used to insist I said or did something that I didn't, but he left it open enough for me to question myself at the time..."Did I really..?" He did this so subtly that I really did doubt myself at times. Things would turn up missing. (I am convinced now that he was stealing from me...money, prescription pills...etc) Sometimes stupid little things would disappear, like my toothbrush! (How in the hell do you misplace your TOOTHbrush...?) Well, he was creating a smoke screen of sorts so he could lie to me and manipulate me further. He would say, "See, you even lost your freakin' toothbrush. No WONDER you can't find the $20 bill you left on the counter. "GASLIGHTING" my dear!

QuestionIs it just a way of provoking you?

That's one part of it. It also keeps you off balance and questioning yourself.

You lose confidence in yourself and that allows him to feel like he's in control.

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