Why do military men call each other ladies?

Answer 1

Homophobia.

Another Perspective

It is sexist language. Insulting masculinity by using sexist remarks indicates that being a woman is insulting. Sexist language is a problem because it is used to send the message that women are inferior. You can see examples of that sort of language all around when a man who misbehaves is called out for 'acting like a little girl' or a coach calls his team members girls to get them riled up and playing harder to prove they are indeed men. Men use the 'B' word to refer to a man who is lower down on the food chain, a man who is somehow subordinate to another man.

It is a part of male posturing in male areas where machismo is especially prized. Judge Joe Brown uses that language often in his nationally broadcast court program to insult young men who are acting badly by not working, not supporting their children, living off women and failing to get an education in order to better themselves. He tells them they are acting like little girls. It is outrageous behavior by a personality who claims to be 'protecting womanhood and promoting manhood'. He is actually perpetuating the lack of respect for women.

That kind of language is damaging because it perpetuates the myth that women are less than fully human and are undesirable if one needs strength and smarts to get ahead in any situation.

Answer 2

"Calling each other ladies" in the military is generally an informal way to break the tension and create camaraderie. It is often done in a playful or humorous manner to lighten the mood and build team spirit. It helps to foster a sense of unity among military personnel.