How do you solve this marriage status bug in Skyrim?

Answer 1

If you are reffering to the glitch where you marry someone, tell them where you want to live and they dont show up there, then just show up back at the chapel or w/e in riften and your spouse should be there.

Answer 2

Sorry I accidentally posted this question prematurely and can't figure out how to edit the question so I'll continue it here.

Well once my wife Sylgja was kidnapped while living in Lakeview Manor by bandits so I had to save her. But however the quest bugged up coz I entered the house first instead of immediately saving her and she disappeared.

After this I basically have a non-existent wife so I went online looking for solutions to make myself single again to look for new wives. What I did was use console commands to make myself single again and also did the "resetquest relationshipmarriage" thing and bingo I was single again.

BUT here's the bug. Even though I'm single and wearing the Amulet of Mara, potential marriage candidates actually comment on it such as "Is that an Amulet Of Mara? I'm surprised someone like you isn't spoken for."

HOWEVER I do not get the dialogue option to say "Are you interested in me?" or what not. No matter what I do everyone seems interested in me but I can't even marry. My relationship status is basically bugged.

I should mention that when trying to solve it I also used a player.placeatme and created a new Sylgja. Some people pointed out that you might not be able to marry even if you're single if she's alive so I tried killing her(both physically and with console commands) but it didn't work. So I left her alive. Let me know if this changes anything or matters in any solution you would post.

Things I've tried but failed:

Console Commands such as

(completequest 0007431B

resetquest 0007431B

resetquest 00021382)

(resetquest relationshipmarriage)

(addtofaction 19809 1)

as well as some marriage mods

PLEASE HELP