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by talking and LISTENING - sounds simple? It isn't. Talking about yourself and your innermost desires is the toughest thing you can do - - AFTER listening to your spouse do the same thing.

Being honest and then LISTENING to your spouse being honest is tough. You can't react to the spouse's honesty in a negative way. You must be willing to work, not react.

But trust me, the pay off, if you are both honest, can be HOT, Steamy, and sexy. The pay off can be sweet, romantic, and giddy. The pay off can be days and days of caring connection. The pay off is you have a best friend and a lover.

It's amazing stuff. When we don't listen - we are husband and wife. When we do listen, we are cats in heat, young love, and old friends wrapped up in one package.

We have been together for 23 years.

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