Can a child with autism who has sexually acted out learn from a program for sexual offenders that is not for children with autism?

Answer 1

I seriously doubt that such a program would be in the best interest of the child whether it "worked" or not. It is highly unlikely that it would, however be successful. Persons with autism assimilate information differently than those without the affliction. Therefore even a program for adult sexual offenders, would not be beneficial for an adult with autism.

a child with autism does not learn the same way as a person who is unaffected. a child with autism doesn't have the understanding of proper social behaviors that a normal child would and most likely doesn't understand what they have done. if the child is in school it would be advisable to speak with the school social worker or counselor and see what they recommend.

A CHILD WITH AUTISM is very capable of learning, just in a different way. SKIP the school counselor; they probably know little about Autism Spectrum Disorder. I have found that a child who is autistic will learn better from the person he trusts most and knows him the best; the parent or guardian or mentor. FORGET a "program" for sex offenders. Teach him appropriate sexual behavior by correcting him over and over when he is not appropriate; role model; if he touches someone, remove him from the area and tell him no; just as you would any other child. Redirect him to an appropriate activity. He has autism; he's not STUPID. Remember that!

Rather than waiting for the next indiscretion put time aside to speak to your child about sex. This way you can talk calmly and rationally without anger or embarrassement over a particular incident getting in the way.

Ask them what they know about sex, whether they have any concerns or particular desires. Once you know what they are feeling you can help them to take the appropriate action. Like asking someone out rather than trying to force affection onto someone etc.

Once you've established what they should do, also set some firm guidelines about what is definiatly not acceptable.

If you can talk about sex calmly and openly it will give your child the message that its normal to have sexual feelings and that they can talk about them with you.

Alternatively if this doesn't work you could try a clinical psychologist who has experience of autistic children.

The idea is to give the child a learning experience that is free from any stressors, including blame or shame. You should not combine punishment with learning, although that is tempting when you child has embarrassed you with inappropriate behavior. Modelling the treatment of other people and a series of talks will get you further.