Can you forgive a cheater

Answer 1

== That really is up to you and depends on how you feel where he is concerned. If you find that you could try and forgive him and possibly trust him - both of you try then that would be a chance you are taking. Sometimes when you take them back that means that you may condone their behavior even though you verbally express you don't and then it happens again as they feel they got away with it once they may be able to do it again. Like the saying "Once a cheater always a cheater". I realize there are men out there as few as it may be that learn from the mistake the once but again that is few and far between. Be sure you weigh your pros and cons concerning your future with him and if your willing to have the possibility of going through this again. == Tough decision for you ... If he cheated once on you before, chances are he will again. But if you are willing to accept that and can forgive him of doing this before, then things may work out okay for the both of you. Some people can rehabilitate themselves, others cannot. == What you should do is dump him and good luck. Depends on how much you like the person. It's all personal opinion and what really happened between you two. Me personally, i wouldn't take it if he/she cheated on me the first time, i would just end the relationship, but see that is because im not as close with this individual yet. If you truly adore them or something.. then you can work around it and try to solve things between each other. Talk, ask him or her what led them to cheat... see how they react to these questions. If you don't wanna let them go then give them another chance.

Answer 2

ANSWER:

It depends on circumstances between couples. There are some that can forgive the cheating spouse, and some who can't. I will used my own personal experience when it comes to this issue. When I discovered the affair of the man I married, instead of justifying his betrayal to me, he called his mistress and comfort her how bad he feels that their relationship is been discovered by me.

Instead of protecting me and our 3 children, he was more concerned about this woman. He also told me that day his having deep feelings for her, so when I heard what he told me, my whole body froze.

If sex was only his desires, I could forgive him, even it might take me a while, but because he loves her and yet wanted to reconcile our marriage, I can't never forgive him because he only wanted to stay because of our children, and not because of me. So if I were you, think it carefully before you give your trust to your spouse......

Answer 3

ANSWER:

When it comes to forgiving, yes we can forgive our spouse for what he or she did. But it will take a while because the bond that hold the couples together was destroy. But the are some that you can't forgive especially f your spouse fell in love with the other woman. This will be up to you when you are really ready to forgive him.

Answer 4

ANSWER:

Some do and some don't, and vice versa. And it depend on each individuals problem