How can you be out going?

Answer 1

you cant just make yourself a more outgoing person, you first need to become comfortable with who you are. You have to teach yourself to let go and not be afraid of what people think about you.
Start trying new things and activities that seem a little bit more different then what you normally do. Also try being a little bit more open to new things.
You can become more outgoing by not thinking just doing it, like if you were at a party and you wanted to dance with a guy don't think bout the negatives or positives don't think just get up and do it if he says no oh well brush your self off and dance with your friends or be your self u cant let one little embarrassing moment or something like that stop you from doing what you want to do. i hope this helps someone because it helped me a lot life is too short just do you.
You will become more outgoing, or at least more capable of acting as if you are, by putting yourself in new situations and places. If you only limit yourself to the places and people that you are currently comfortable with, you will live in a small world.

Answer 2

Confidence!!!!!!! Don't be afraid to just blurt something out or say something silly!!! What helps me is just to think....I DON'T GIVE A CRAP WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT ME! And it helps alot!!! I used to be REALLY SHY but when i started thinking that i let loose and Became more outgoing.

Answer 3

1 you dont have to be confident to be outgoing just smile make them feel like if you care about them

2 try to be funny it makes that person want to be around you more

3 ask questions and complements like "you look nice today and how was your day?"

but most of all be your self

Answer 4

Confidence. Go out. Be social.

There are many books on social interactions. (Check your local book store)