How can you stop being jealous?

Answer 1

There is only one way and that's through counseling for your problem. There is something deep rooted inside of you that has caused you to mistrust either your mate or those around you. It's up to you to find out! Yes, I agree there is a need for counseling if you have not gone before. But it is not necessary. First you need to identify and be able to admit that you have a neurotic problem. I have run across an excellent book called Overcoming Jealousy and Possissiveness by Paul A Hauck. He tells about the neurotic, obsessive emotions that we have, yes, I have it too. As I was reading this book he was talking about exactly how my own behavior is, I really recommend this little paper back book. Read it and really study it over and over again. Also, read Louise Hay books. Change your way of thinking, I mean the actual negative thoughts you are telling yourself in your head and will know what they are.

Answer 2

you can control jealousy by not being jealous! just kidding its not that easy but all you have to do is remember that GOD loves you and your perfect in his eyes and it REALLY doesnt matter what other people do or say. to stop jealousy just look in the mirror and say to your self, im beautiful, im beautiful. and if your a dude than say, im hot, im hot. haha also just look at all of the things you have and homeless people that dont have hardly anything as good as yours. so yah i hope i answereed your question yo. ha

Answer 3

Well, their are different kinds of jealousy 1-friends 2-popular crowds 3-boyfriend and girlfriend. Friends-just pretend like the persons not there Popular Crowds- just stay true to yourself, you're probably better than them in one way or another Boyfriend&Girlfriend- if your boyfriend is hanging around another girll, just tell him how you feel. if your girlfriend is hanging around another boy, tell her how you feel.

Answer 4

I think if you are jealous the easiest way of getting over it is to , believe in yourself dont let other people in the world bring you down or thank less of yourself. I thank if you just have confiedence in yourself and you trust your mate then everything is good.

Answer 5

jealousy is just an emotion, like love or hate sometimes people can be envious of others for many reasons, when a per son feels like that it is a good thing to look a t all the other good things in your life, every one has blessings that we do not always think about. There will always be people who are better looking richer and more powerful, so when we feel like envy, count your blessings!

Answer 6

Jealousy is a very horrible feeling for anybody, and the best way to cure it is to remember what you have.This means to be thank-ful for what you've got.

If you are jealous of something,try to be better then the person you are jealous of.

Improve yourself,try to be better,and if needed change yourself!

It is also good to find harmony within yourself!

Answer 7

jelousy isn't something a person can just get rid of. but depending on the situation it can most of the time be controlled, try get the person suffering with jelousy to confide in a friend o good talk to get things off your chest can some times clear things up or put it to the back of your mind and try and think of things in a positive way maybe the jelousy will channel into poisitive thoughts.