Keep your conversations related to your daughter. Do not engage in any conversations about you, him, or your "wonderful past" (he'll conveniently "forget" the bad times). Be nice to him (I know, bite your tongue). Don't engage him in verbal sparring. He'll love that. Speak nicely of him to your daughter. However, show NO pity. Be "machine-like." If he calls to see if he can get your daughter, Sally, and you say, "Today is great. What time?" and he says, "I miss you. Maybe we should try again?" Your answer should be, "Picking up Sally today is great. What time?" DO NOT give in. DO NOT make the mistake of feeling sorry for him. That's how it starts. Stick to your plan. Rehearse what to say ahead of time if you have to. If he says he's changed, ask him for a note from his therapist, stating so. Works every time. For a great narcissist-Survivor group online including people who are having to co-parent with a Narcissist, check out: http://groups.msn.com/NARCISSISTICPERSONALITYDISORDER/general.msnw Be strong, ~ T
A narcissist creates a fabulous, grandiose personage known as the false self- everything he is not. He then sets out to collect the adulation, attention, respect, applause, and fear of others who reflect that false self back at him. That's his supply. He is in love with that reflection of his false self and those persons who aren't on to his game are his supply.
Since you have divorced him it is unlikely you will continue to be any supply source unless you haven't broken free of him and his lies. If you still fall prey to his outrageous, inflated sense of self and provide the needed worship and adulation then you need counseling. On the other hand, if you can manage your life on the reality side of things and make certain to discuss dad's bad habits with your child gingerly (so she won't be constantly disappointed and develop into a supply source) you can't become a supply source yourself. You are no longer a constant companion so keep your distance and feel comfort in the fact that you know his secrets. You won't be filling his needs anymore if you're smart.
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Suck it up and get a good lawyer. Also, read "without conscience". It illuminates how to deal with people like that.
The usual response of a narcissistic husband is to not want his wife to leave - because he can't imagine the thought or image in his head of any other guy being intimate with her, in any way. It is a big problem, on his part. Your task is to ask the quesiton, "Am I better off with him or without him?". The answer to this question should drive your actions (rather than any guilt feelings you may have about what your husband is left to deal with).
It's difficult to say without more details. You should probably talk to a lawyer. The basic principle is that you personally may not be, but his estate probably is.
Without My Daughter was created in 2002.
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The book called, 'Not Without My Daughter', by Betty Mahmoody is a real life true story of a mother's fight with her husband to not to get separated from her daughter. This is not a piece of fiction but a sentimental true life story about a white woman married to an Iranian doctor.
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Possibly because you are just an extention of her and if you look ugly or weird without it she will feel embarassment so she doesn't want to take the risk. My advice, do it anyway and be yourself.
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An American woman and her Iranian visit Iran to meet with his family. He promises her they will only stay for 2 weeks, however his true intentions were to keep her there. The movie follows Betty (Sally Field) and her struggle to go to America with her daughter; although she cannot divorce her husband, because her daughter would go to her abusive husband.
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