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The saying goes "don't lend money to family and friends!" If the person doesn't bother to pay you back (and most don't) then there will always be that between you and you'll never feel the same about the person again. Remember, you work hard for that money! Unless you signed a contract with a witness (most people don't when it's just a personal loan from your bank account) then you are stuck with not getting your money back. Sorry (I've been stung before but learned from the first time around.)
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If your ex was ordered to pay bills in your divorce but he filed bankruptcy on them how can you take him back to court to get the money owed to you?
Answer I really highly suggest you get legal counsel on this one because it's very complicated. The good news is, the courts made your ex respo…nsible for the bills, so this means if he declared personal or business bankruptcy it will have nothing to do with you. Let him sweat it out! Even if he gave you the house and it was all done by the courts, and the house is solely yours, the IRS or anyone else can't take your home away or anything else the courts gave you. Good luck Marcy * You will have to sue your ex-spouse for monies owed. In the US terms included in a divorce decree are not legally binding when it pertains to creditor debt. If the debts were incurred by both persons then one can file bankruptcy and the other party get "stuck" with the debt regardless of the dissolution of marriage agreement. If the debts were solely incurred and the couple did not reside in a community property state then said debts belong to the person who holds the account or loan.
Answer . Unfortunately, unless a contract was signed by both of you then you might as well have put wings on the money. There are certain people that may borrow $20 - $50… from me and if they are in a bad way I know before I loan the money it's "bye-bye." Therefore, before giving money to someone I weigh the consequences.
over a long time! Stop borrowing and not going to war PS Sorry made a typo
If you don´t have any paper´s where he has signed that he owes you money... take it as it is... you won´t get anything back... write it down as experience... even it …might have been an expensive experience.
cause he would have to see your face and as long as he owes you youll never go broke
i need sample that letter mentioned staff to settlement of the money and the closing with account number
I'm in the same boat with a relative. If they are having trouble affording things, it usually is poor money management and/or that they want things that are beyond their means…. Hard as it is, loaning these people money is like giving it to them. You will not ever see it paid back. Once you learn this for certain, do not give them any more, ending the vicious cycle of supporting this behavior. If you have lent someone money, you need to be persistent in reminding them. Often times people may simply 'forget' that they owe you. And of course it can be rather uncomfortable to tell friends or loved ones that they owe you money. One option is to use web-based reminder services such as http://www.PayMePlz.com to send automatic email, sms and voice reminders to people who owe you money. If you have a written agreement or other paperwork, you can take them to small claims court or put a lien on their property. Still, chances of repayment are slim to none.
because they can pay for you went you need money
A legal letter to pay back money owed is called a collection letter. It is better to have a collection letter come from a corporation that collects debts or an attorney. H…owever, you can also write one yourself.
How do you get your ex-boyfriend to pay you back money the owes you. I made iou and he didnt sign it?
If you have witnesses to the loan, and if there's enough money involved, you can try small claims court. Otherwise, accept the fact that he's not going to pay you back (and ma…ybe mention to your friends that they shouldn't loan him any money). And be glad he's your EX-boyfriend!
Your exgirlfriend owes you money can you keep the things she left at your house until she pays you back?
Legally, NO YOU CAN NOT! She has the right to have you arrested for theft. Your best bet is to just chop it as a lost, or take her to court and file a civil suit! good luck
If you're a child they can't take you to court and plus it would be stupid to if its only a little bit of money.
If it's owed to you, then no, unless you press for it. If it's owed to someone else, then he still owes it. While you don't technically owe it yourself, part of the package …getting back with your ex is that he still owes it and it needs to be part of your household budget.
What you need to do is tell them a fictional story. Casually say that the last person who didn't pay you back, (insert made up name), couldnt walk for two days because you kne…ed them in the balls so hard. Add more details to the story to make it sound better. Whatever you do though, make it sound very CASUAL, and not hinting that they should pay you back.
Morally, you should. Though, it depends if there was a verbal or otherwise contract, i.e. an agreement of a loan for you to pay him back. If there was, you are legally oblig…ated to pay back the money to him.
with your soul