If you don't like it, tell her about it when you are alone with her. If it is a deal breaker, tell her. Tell her why, and what you want her to do. Then listen to her answer, and then decide what is best for you.
If your mother is dating him, he is off limits.
get divorced.
How should you handle your boyfriend... With LOVE and RESPECT and COMPASSION! If by handle you mean control, then you don't. You are a couple! Meaning, you care for each other; meaning, you respect each other; meaning, you will jump out in front of a truck to save him. 'Handle' your boyfriend, the same way you would "Handle" your Best Friend!
According to a People Magazine issue, Kate Gosselin doesn't have a boyfriend, but would be interested in dating. When her divorce was finalized in December 2009, she has stated that thse is "married to her kids" and that it would be very difficult to find a boyfriend who could handle all the baggage associated with having 8 children.
talk it out with him, he will understand.
No..but its hard to handle
This is all personal opinion. If you believe you are old enough to handle a boyfriend, and have such commitment, then by all means pursue him. Though do not, if you believe you cannot handle this.
I am so sorry you over heard that comment from your boyfriend's mother, sister and aunt. Unless they know you from being around quite often they have no right to judge you until they get to know you. If your boyfriend truly loves you then anything they say can't harm the relationship between both of you. When I was divorced and was dating my second husband I was also almost four years older than he was his mother sat him down privately (my boyfriend told me later) and said she didn't think I was the one for him because I was older and divorced and he had never been married. He was of age and thankfully stood his ground on the issue. The more his parents got to know me the more they liked me and we had a long and loving relationship until his parents passed away. Talk to your boyfriend about it and if he's mature he'll handle this problem and you won't have to get involved.
ignore him or kill him.
Pray alot
beat him up.
you slap him in his face and call him an a**hole