First of all, the guy you are crushing on-look at his body language. Believe it or not, it says a lot about him and how he feels about you. Ask yourself "Is he tensing up and getting nervous around me? Is he smiling or depressed when he sees you? And does he go out of his way to talk to you and does he get jealous when he sees you hanging out with other guys? Then look to see if he pays any attention to you whatsoever. That is a definite sign if he likes you or not. Another obvious sign is him talking to other girls often and avoiding you. Last tip-the eye test! Look into his eyes and see if his pupils enlarge or not. If they do, it's another sign he likes you, according to recent studies.
I've seen thousands of these situations, and so far, this is what generally might happen
- You ask him, he says he doesn't like you. You are embarrassed beyond belief
- You ask him, he says yes, you are relieved
- You write him a note, he says yes, you are relieved
- You write him a note, he says no, shows it to everyone else and you are ready to kill yourself with embarrassment
- Your friend asks him, he says no, everyone saves face
- Your friend asks him, he says yes, everyone wins
But the best way that I've seen so far is
- Give him subtle signs, touching his arm, talking to him, but not so much that you seem like a fangirl.
This way, if he likes you, these actions will probably prompt him to ask you out, if not, then he is either very shy and you picked a good guy, or he starts to get out of physical contact with you, will pull his arm away from your touches, will try to stop conversations, and you will be able to tell that he doesn't like you. If you stop once these signs begin, you can still be friends.
If he is very shy, you will be able to tell by the way that he reacts to you. If he blushes or looks away when you touch his arm, and speaks nervously when you are talking to him, then he likes you and is nervous.
These generally work if you are over 15, and are less effective if younger than that.
ask him
if he doesnt do it you do it.
you get a life
Then maybe that guy isn't the right one for you. There are plenty of guys out there and if he is the perfect guy for you, he will like you for you. I know that is a bit poetic but it is true.
he obviously likes her back and doesnt know what to say or he doesnt like her back and doesnt want to make her mad he obviously likes her back and doesnt know what to say or he doesnt like her back and doesnt want to make her mad
Be friends.If he still doesn't like you then move on to a different person.
if you really like a guy and he doesn't like you back then just get over it but if you don't know for sure then just ask him if he does and if you can't do that then just come out with it any time and when you're ready to tell him
no, just relax, it can be nerve racking but it's hard for the guy to like you back if he doesnt know you, so just start by saying hello :)
He's obviously not thinking straight or he's a total wretched nob that is completely of his nut.
Then don't let him know it hurt you.
if they loose interest in you
Then you shouldn't waste your time on him. Dont improve your looks to try to impress him, because if he decides to like you after you do that, then you'll know that he only wants one thing from you. Just don't try to be something your not. If the guy cant see you and like you for who you are, then he clearly isn't worth your time. And you clearly can do better. Someone will eventually come around perfect for you, just be patient. So what if a guy doesnt like you back, like a new guy ;)
Ask him.