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How do you know if you really love someone or not?
Does your heart beat harder,do you get butterflies in your stomach,when you picture them in your mind do you smile.When you hold hands are you happy.Do you miss them when they are at work,do you long just to hear their voice.Do you like doing things for them.When you kiss do you have a hard time stopping.Do you wish you could be with them more.Are you interested in the things they talk about.When they are down do you want to comfort them.When their sick do you want to take care of them.Just a few things that might mean your in love. Marty
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When someone knows most of your faults and weaknesses, but loves you anyway, is when you can tell. Other than that if he/she will take a bullet for you and put themself in dan…ger to save or help you then you can tell he/she really loves you. I should know from experience that not everyone is going to stick around. So if you really want to now if they truly love you then take this challenge. Don't talk to them or see them for 6 months and afterward if they are still around and didn't date anyone during that period of time then keep them because they are in love with you. Trust me it works. So how would you know if they didn't date anyone?
When you are really in love with someone you will call her every chance you get. You will be with her and not your friends/family when she calls for you. If she need help mone…y etc. you will find a way to get it. You would get so sick if she should stop seeing or talking to you.That is the way love go's.
some things just give it away this is a age old question that some find difficult to answer.I think there are many different ways to tell.From my life I thi…nk the first thing is that they become open to you.They tell you things that might hurt them to talk about or it kinda makes you feel odd to know about.Also if they say they love you when your being stupid or in a situation where you think they shouldn't even like you.
When you are uncertain if you really love someone, you don't.
If you care for their happiness and well being more than yours, If they make you feel good when they are around or just when you hear their name. If you want to be with them a…s much as possible. ANSWER: I think I will let you ask the man I married with your question, cause it happened to him. I will share to you what my experience is, all the sign was there, and if you do ask this man I married, he will tell you that he was only infatuated with his ex mistress. This were what I noticed from him, as follows; 1- talking on the phone 24/7 2- Being with his mistress everytime on her days off 3- going out on a date, even very late night 4- exchanging email 5- going to church together from her town to our town 6- and the romantic of them all, he can not start his day without hearing her voice, and he can not or will not sleep without calling her.
They do some of the following maybe other special things too. Its different for every couple. Number 1: They enjoy spending time with you. You both feel very happy …when you're together. Number 2: You can tell them anything. Number 3: They try their best to comfort you and make you feel better if you're feeling down. Number 4: They KNOW things about you that only a person who takes the time and puts in the effort knows. They pick up on your little particularities, things that you do that you might not even be aware of. Without you having to tell them, they know when you're upset, they know when you're happy, they know how to cheer you up, how to make you happy. Number 5: They find everything you do, even things you think should be unattractive, adorable. Number 5: They dont try to stop you from doing things you love. They don't try to control you. Number 6: They listen to you, they share things with you.
You have to know it in our heart. there is not "text book" answer.
How do you feel when you think about this person, do they make you happy, when they make you upset do you forgive them unconditionally. You can't really tell if you really lov…e someone, but what you can tell is how you feel toward them. Just ask yourself how do you feel for that person.
When that person walks by, you will get chills and goosebumps up your arms. Everytime you are about to talk to that person, you get nervous and stammer your words. YOur heart …will start racing when your eyes meet. You will giggle a lot when they talk to you. You will smile all the time when you are with that person. You will wish you were with them all the time. You will wish they loved you back, even if they dont.
Im a guy; soo I know about being used. You know if you are being used if you are only asked for help on homework for the only interaction with a girl. If that's the only thing… she talks about with u then you are probably being used. Also, if she only wants to spend time with u in a mall with money to spend on her. If you get her an expensive gift, and she doesnt give you anything If you ask her if she wants to hang out with u, and she says she already has plans if she talks to other guys and flirts with them more than you if she has a boyfriend These are a couple of situations that you are probably being used
If you want him or her to be happy. even if it's with someone else.
When they are able to show you through their actions, words, deeds, and resources. For instance, you could be hitting a rough spot in your life where most of your so calle…d friends have turned their backs on you. If this person would be able to help and assist you in weathering the storm, and provide an escape from it through their kind and considerate deeds and actions, regardless of their resources limitations, this would show you that they have true love for you. as for me..the answer is simple. let's just make it this way. this is what i feel: 1. when someone really loves you, he will cry for you. Especially when that someone really misses you. 2. when someone really loves you, he/she seems love you more than he/she loves himself/herself. 3. when someone really loves you, he will call you just to hear your voice. 4. when someone really loves you, he/she makes you a star. Another big thing is that if he really loves you he will ditch his guy friends just to hang out with you(: he will not care to hold your hand or tell you your beautiful and that's he loves you in public, he will tell his mom how much he cares or he will go to one of your friends and have a talk with them just to tell them how much he loves you. Or a big thing is that he will leave you a message on your phone that says I'm calling you to tell you he loves you! I think it is so sweet but if a guy is rushing you to have sex he isn't the one he wants it and he will leave i have experienced this, and I'm telling you its hard to find a good guy that don't play so if he does these things KEEP HIM!
1. you always think of him and especially before you sleep. 2. you get nervous when you walk over him and your heart starts to beat faster. 3. you always look at him. 4.… you count the seconds to see him everyday. 5. before you see him you look good. 6. you smile to him when he looks at you. 7. lastly if you really wanna know if your in love with him/her you will dream about him/her. Answer He or she lights up your world like no one else; That person can walk into a room and everything and everyone else disappears; you cannot even imagine spending your time with someone else because they is no replacement for him or her; real love is not selfish; time is the true test of real love.
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They truly cannot tget you off of their mind.
Love is an attitude that manifest itself in consistant actions. In theory this means that Love is not a feeling and occurs over a period of time. I agree with the above contri…butor. I can tell you it is not a spontaneous event. It comes over time, through trails and tribulation, good times and bad times, through developing of a solid trust factor, etc. In the end you just know.