How do you know whether you are in love with someone and he loves you?

Answer 1

Well this is a tricky one. I'm going to start with the easy... That is to say how you know if you are in love with him. A general tell as to if you are in love is if 80% of the time you are thinking about the guy in question. (What is he doing right now?) (What is he doing this weekend?) (What class is he in right now?) (I wonder if I will see him in the hall?) Things like that. Some people say that you don't need to be attracted to someone to be in love. This is not true you can love someone that you are not attracted to but you can't be IN LOVE with a person you are not attracted to them. I like a girl and I personally can't see flaws with her I'm sure she has them but I don't see them. OK... now for the hard part. How to tell if he loves you. Just because a guy is checking you out or just because he is nervous around you does not me that he is in love with you. One tell is if when you make eye contact he smiles. (Side note... don't stare at him till he sees you its just weird.) Another tell is if he is trying to initiate interaction between you and him such as a conversation. Or he may be trying to do the same things as you. Yet another tell would be if he is polite and try's to put you before himself. (If it is cold out and he has a jacket he may offer it to you.) < that is not always a sure thing because a lot of the time people will be nervous because they think that is cheesy. I hope this helps I myself am very shy so this stuff is hard for me but I know it to be true and it should work for you. :D