It most certainly won't be easy, but it is possible. Just as you were able to marry someone of a different faith without loving them less or feeling the need to convert them into your beliefs, the same should be for the child. While you may not be able to raise them directly under either faith, you both can (and probably should) teach your child of both faiths without tearing the others down, and show forgiveness if the child does something that is seen as normal for one of your faiths, but not the other. The child shouldn't be pulled or tugged in either direction, or told that they are playing favorites with the parents if they choose not to follow one or the others faith.
Eventually, the child will, at their own discretion, choose which one they feel is correct, or they may decide to carry both in life. If not, the child may decide not to have any faith at all. Whichever the choice, they should not be scorned by either parent because of it.
Steven Carr Reuben has written: 'There's an Easter Egg on Your Seder Plate' -- subject(s): Interfaith families, Interfaith marriage, Jewish families, Judaism, Parenting, Religious aspects, Religious aspects of Parenting, Religious life 'A Parent's Guilt-Free Guide to Raising Jewish Kids' 'Children of character' 'But how will you raise the children?' -- subject(s): Interfaith marriage
It will not, just as interracial and interfaith marriage did not destroy the institution.
M. Karsayuda has written: 'Perkawinan beda agama' -- subject(s): Interfaith marriage (Islamic law), Islam and justice, Interfaith marriage
Crisis Counselor - 1982 Interfaith Marriage 1-176 was released on: USA: 14 October 1982
Gerald Cromer has written: 'Insurgent Terrorism (International Library of Criminology, Criminal Justice and Penology)' 'ha- Dilemah ha-mahutit' -- subject(s): Interfaith marriage, Interfaith marriage (Jewish law), Jews, Judaism, Marriage, Religious aspects of Marriage, Social conditions
Sometimes, but it's mostly among Orthodox Jews.
Dawud Assad has written: 'Christian-Muslim-marriages' -- subject(s): Christianity, Congresses, Interfaith marriage, Islam, Marriage, Religious aspects of Marriage
Ephraim Feldman has written: 'Intermarriage historically considered' -- subject(s): Interfaith marriage
Gwen K. Packard has written: 'Coping with stress' -- subject(s): Juvenile literature, Stress in adolescence, Stress management for teenagers, Stress (Psychology) 'Coping in an interfaith family' -- subject(s): Juvenile literature, Interfaith families, Interfaith marriage, Religious life, Family
Answer In an interfaith marriage you live that persons beliefs, so if you aren't Jewish and marry a Jewish man you have to convert to judism. If you convert then you live that life style. If you do marry in the same faith you already know well in advance what you are getting yourself into, and there-fore you should be able to make this decision based upon your own life's experiences.
Before a Catholic marries a non-Catholic, the Catholic must (for the marriage to be considered proper by the Catholic Church) agree to raise any children as Catholics.
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