Don't date him, see him, or contact him and refuse all contact. Ever.
Many of the ignore the R.O.
It is possible to show up a narcissist publicly, but if you do, the narcissist is going to be very angry at you. It is not always a wise strategy to make enemies.
More than likely she wont care.
"React" stands for a lot of things so you're not being specific enough.
they're still a Narcissistjust a stoned Narcissist
Usually they have moved on by then and found another victim who is able to feed them the constant attention they need.
please specify who "her" refers to. As the question stands "her" could be the narcissist or the other person.
There is no such thing as a 'compensatory narcissist'. It is a fake term made up by psychopath Sam Vaknin (see Related Links). No Contact with a Narcissist is always best.
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He would react with jealousy and envy and could possibly make things very difficult for her by sabotaging the job by contacting employers, co-workers and spread false rumours, or by flattening her tyres, turning off the alarm clock and genreally making it impossible for her to go UNLESS there was something in it for him but outwardly to her and everyone else he MIGHT show he actually cared and was happy for her. Follow up question...would the lure of money and prestige be enough for a narcissist to accept a situation such as this or is a narcissist's self-esteem and self-importance more important to him than money and prestige? to follow up question: No, it would not. The later is more important.
Before you break up. Try your best to change the person.
You cannot change a narcissist. That's like saying how do you change a snake into a bear. They use other people who are taken in by their performance. Get away while you can still run. If you think you can change a narcissist then you are setting yourself up as the perfect prey. While you are trying to change the unchangeable he will be using you up.