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How do you stop an abusive situation at home between a father and a daughter the father is abusive and the daughter is trapped How do you free yourself and start living again.?
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∙ 15y ago
Now this depends upon your age. If you are school-age, then you may start with a peer councilor at school. A teacher that you trust. Call the child abuse hotline and make an "anonymous" report. No one will ask the name of the caller if you don't want to give it. Just tell them you suspect abuse at a certain address. A social worker will do an investigation. Be honest, they can't help you if you don't ask for it. If you are an adult, this is important ... I am in exactly the same position. My father's abusive, controlling, and aggressive behavior has alienated him from all family. He has no friends, and he never has had any friends. He loves to push people into arguments. But that's not all he pushes. He is physically and verbally abusive. I've been the only one who has stuck with him through the years -- fifty to be exact. He's now 80 years old, and his behavior simply is worsening. I will tell you what I've finally come to admit -- he's not going to change, remove him from your life, and begin living for yourself. I'm in that process now, and it is very hard. But don't spend as much time ruining your life as I have ... end it now and begin living for yourself, your wife, and your children. I can honestly say that my abusive father ruined my childhood, and I have allowed him to ruin my adulthood as well. I just kept thinking that, as he aged, he would mellow out and become that good father to the good daughter that I have been. Unfortunately, I see that will never happen. So, I'm ending my relationship with my father ... I am saying no to his hittiing, pushing, shoving, punching, name-calling, stomping, insults, sarcasm, and throwing things. It will be over soon, and I will be spending the rest of my life healing and wishing I had acted sooner. Don't wait any longer ... take a stand now, get him out of your life, start healing, and begin your life with freedom.
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When dealing with an abusive boyfriend how can you tell the difference between standing up for yourself and using emotional blackmail or even becoming abusive yourself?
Standing up for yourself is simply saying that you will no longer tolerate abusive behavior, and backing it up by leaving it if does not stop. You cannot "deal" with abusers. If they refuse to get counseling, you need to get away from them. Untreated, abuse almost always gets worse with time.
Can infrequent sexual encounters between a husband and wife add to his abusive behaviour?
No. Abuse is only the result of the choice to use an abusive tactic. In any situation, abusive behavior is a choice, and non-abusive behavior can be chosen at the same time. The frequency of sex in a marriage can not cause abuse, but abuse can definitely impact the frequency of sex in a marriage.
What is the difference between reprieve and pardon?
Reprieve: to let up on a particular situation, Pardon: to be forgiven for a particular situation
Your son has been mentally abusive for years how do you get yourself strong enough to not take the abuse?
Get some serious space between the two of you. If that means kicking him out of the house and changing states, do it.
What to do when your man think you are cheating?
If you are...your goose is cooked, he will find out about it so just admit it.If you are not...reasure him that he is the only one and then do not put yourself in a situation where he can accuse you of it in the future. Make sure you show him that he is your only one, that you are loyal to him.AnswerIf this is a continuous examination by the guy, then you are probably in an abusive situation and this is a large, red, flag. It is best to break up now while you have your wits about you, since the answer of innocence you give will not be what he is looking for. A real lasting relationship will have trust between the partners and that is the truth.
How do you stop contact between my abusive ex and our child?
Get a restraining order.
What is the relationship between you and daughter of your daughter?
Your daughter's daughter is your granddaughter, and you would be her grandmother or grandfather.
What is relationship between your daughter to your brother's daughter?
Cousins
What is the relationship between your daughter and your brother?
Your daughter is your brother's niece. Your brother is your daughter's uncle
What is the relationship between aunty's daughter's daughter and you?
2nd cousin
What is the relationship between you and your aunt's daughter's daughter?
She is your first cousin.
What if you are in love with your daughter?
A father should only have a parental love for their daughter and to have a physical or emotional romantic love for their daughter is incest and against the law. It is wise for a father to seek professional help before this type of love causes a disaster that can never be rectified between father and daughter. Meanwhile, see less of your daughter if possible and if she is around then keep yourself busy while you are also receiving professional help.
