How do you stop caring what people think about you and how do you stop the roving eye when you are married and love the man you are with?

Answer 1

If you are cordial and considerate of other's feelings then there is no reason why you should care what other people think, unless you are doing something that makes you feel guilty within yourself. These would be your own demons to deal with.

All men and women at one point or an other like to have a roving eye, but the old adage is "look, but don't touch." We always feel that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, but 9 chances out of 10 it isn't. If you have a good guy, be thankful for that and don't do anything you will regret.

Women or men who constantly have a roaming eye shine out in a crowd like a red flag and they get a bad reputation, so they end up as being labeled as not worth taking a chance on. Watch out, because one day you are going to look around and nobody will be there!

Look, but don't touch isn't good advice. Don't even look. If you lose your self control you can possibly destroy your own marriage, and maybe the rest of your life. It's hard, I know, but try to control your thoughts as well as you can.

ANSWER

Plan A

I think, if you like eye candy get a calender each year...but if this doesnt satisfy your desire to look maybe you married the wrong guy. When I have the perfection connection with a man, there isn't another man that I look at or that attracts me. You have to love everything, the way they smell, the way they clear their throats, the way they scratch their head, the way they tie their shoes, the way they treat others, the hair they have-as well as the hair they might be missing.....the list is endless. Can you focus on those things..every small detail your husband has...is something that is just for you now...so you should appreciate every inch of your husband soo much that when you look at someone sexy you know "ha he doesnt smell good like my man, he doesnt have all those sweet qualities that you adore about your husband".....

Plan B

ok so what if you love him so very much , but cant muster up those small details to love because his feet stinks or he farts al the time ect....I suggest you build some romance by doing things you've never done before. Waking up at 12 midnight and going sleding...things that make you and him feel young. Im assuming you are under 40. But things like bike riding early in the morning, or late in the evening. Rollar skating , walking, hiking, canoeing, camping, pedicures together, sending him fruit baskets at work or emailing him an occasional sexy picture, texting him during the day, there are so many ways to be close to someoone so that when your eye looks at the next guy....those great times blind you from taking that second thought. I hope you liked my answer