to tell someone your lesbain like your parents or friends all you have to do is be brave and think that they will still love you even if you are a lesbain
Just come out and say it!
tell him the reasons why you are a lesbian...he will understand.
You can tell if you are a lesbian if you are attracted exclusively to other women.
If you are a curious and need to tell if you are a lesbian, think about a woman's body. If it turns you on in a sexual way, you are likely a lesbian.
tell them , "i know what i said before, but i was scared. scared of what people will say and how they will treat after words. but I'm a lesbian. " simple as that. but honestly, don't let other's opinions affect you. you are who you are. don't be ashamed.
At one time, the catch phrase was "Don't ask, don't tell," but as of 2011, gay people are able to serve openly in the military.
Try to educate them on what bisexuality actually is. Tell them "I am not a lesbian. Lesbians will only date girls. I'm bisexual. That means that I don't care about gender. I care about the person inside."
That your a lesbian
You ask her.
You ask her.
You mean ' How do you tell your friends are mad if you tell them you're a lesbian'?? That's easy, they avoid you and make fun of you publicly. It also means you need to get new friends. If you mean "How can you tell if your friends will be mad if you tell them you're a lesbian?" the easiest way is show them you support lesbian/gay rights. If one of your friends says "that's so gay" (meaning that's stupid, or something like that) tell them that's not a good thing to say. Saying stuff like that is offensive to lesbian and gay people -- it's like saying "that's so black", for example. If one of them makes fun of lesbians, object. Tell them you don't like that kind of talk. If one of them says "Why? Are you a lesbian?" you can either say "yes" or "what if I am?" Your real friends will be your friends no matter what!
She smiles at you, she looks at you, she is interested in what you are saying. All the normal ways you know if people like you.