If you current boyfriend still communicates with an ex whom he loves is he able to be committed?

Answer 1

He is able to be committed, the question is to whom? It really depends on the type of love he is feeling towards his ex. You can love someone without being "in love". Having good and open communication is number one in any relationship. <<>>Communication with an ex after a break-up and start of a new relationship is a clear indicator that the person is unable to be committed. Commitment is loyal bond between two lovers that can be trusted. If there is a lack of trust with your boyfriend, it means that you are out of your comfort zone and he is out of his boundaries. However, it could be a mere misunderstanding. Your boyfriend could just be going through a phase in which he has to break the remaining bond that he has with her. A constant friendship with an ex is not something that he should be engaging in. First let him know that the relationship that he has with her is unacceptable. He has to take steps to let her go; if you love him, you have to have patience to give him time to let her go. If he doesn't act on your wish, then he's not trustworthy. He may have something to hide. Therefore, you are the decision maker in this situation. Based on his decision to move on or remain in contact with her, you have to make your decision too.<<>>