This is my advice, as Asterix123, first, talk to him. Tell him how he hurt you and how you know he lied to you and ask if he is really sorry. If he isn't sorry, a good idea to let him go free now... If he is sorry, tell him you will give him Another chance. If he hurts you again after that, tell him that you should let him go free. It is probably a good idea that if he is hurting you and lying repeatedly, possibly a good thing to let him go free, for a while anyway. Just be friends. Say, maybe a month, and then see if he is going to come back to you and not hurt you or lie. Also, make sure in all this you know what his opinion is on what's going on.
when you're sick of it.
Right now. Leave him this instant. Never look back, and never listen to him again. He does not care about you. Find a guy who does, if you can't, stay single.
When you feel ready. I was in a relationship like this, and one day I decided to do research on his behavior. It's emotional abuse, and you don't have to deal with it. This guy was my first real relationship, so I didn't know what I was supposed to do, or how he was supposed to act. Before I did the research I had started marking our fights on a calendar to see how often we actually faught, not to mention keeping a record of the number of times he lied or cheated on me. I had previously talked to my feelings on this to him, but it just ended in more fighting. One day I just felt like I was strong enough to leave, and I did, and I feel a lot better about myself and I'm much happier now. Don't let him convince you to stay. Don't think no one else wants you. You can get out, and you can find someone better. Trust me.
You do not deserve the abuse. There are many things worse than being lonely. If he loves you truly, he will learn how to behave, consistently and over a LONG period of time, with integrity. Trust is like paychecks and respect; it has to be earned. He owes you a lot of work right now.
It is up to you to decide, we can't answer this question for you..How much can you take really?
ShortYESTERDAY!!The first time it's a mistake. The second time it's his fault. The third time it's your fault. Your putting yourself in a situation being the victim is only part of the problem. The time to leave has long passed, and you failed to grasp it.
When you ask that question, enough is enough and he doesn't deserve you if you have to ask that.
Stop whining about her boyfriend, be mature, & explain how you feel about the situation. Have a serious talk. Don't shout & don't tell her how to feel about her boyfriend. Communicate & express how you feel. Tell her it hurt you when she lied to you.
if your bf lied to you then you should see if he's really great enough to be trusted in again and if he already said sorry then think to the beat of your heart.
What if your boyfriend doesn't believe what you say because you lied to him once? what should I do? Was your boyfriend trusting and good before you lied? Was the thing you lied about big enough to warrant his mistrust? If you lied to him about something big, or if you have a habit of lying to him about things, then you need to earn back his trust. If you broke his trust then it is yours to fix. If, however, you lied to him about whether or not you ate the last piece of pie and he says he cannot trust you, then you may need to reevaluate whether or not you are with a quality person.
admit it
yes because he lied to you and he didnt tell u the right thing he lied if my boyfriend lied to me i would spat him
I hate to say it, but that's just a guys way of trying not to hurt your feelings.
Sit down with him & tell him that you've lied about something; then tell him you lied about your schooling.
get a new boyfriend...
Be straightforward. Tell him you lied & then explain why you felt the need to do it.
Tell him up front, and how hurt and disappointed you are. ----------------------- You must also think about whether you still want to be with him after this, you can not really trust him now.
dump him?
it depends on what type of lie he told you