go to counciling
by maybe hinting around or you could be a bad friend and go look for their journals or diary or just flat out talking about the obvious
The best thing that family can do for a substance abuser is stage an intervention. Once that intervention has been staged, present the abuser with the opportunity to go to rehab.
You should go see the abuse counselor first and get some idea of what he or she is able to do for you. Once you get some positive, constructive tools in dealing with abuse and can show (maybe) that you are trying to help the abuser as well as the abused, the family member may realize that you are not just trying to make the abuser look bad. ~ T
if you maybe get into a fight with one of your best friends it can change the whole sleepover around you might not end up talking to eache other or you friend might go home
Most of the time. The trick is not to LET him/ her back.
Raushan Hammond goes by The Abuser.
If you live in another county or town then go further away and retain a lawyer to see what your rights are. Be prepared to pack your things when your abuser is not around and find out where the closest Women's Shelter is wherever you decide to go. You should discuss this with other family members because they are obviously nervous that the abuser or the police officer could make trouble for them. If you live in a large city then go to another district of the city and retain a lawyer.
Abuser of what? drugs or you? Convince them to go to anger management, or rehab. talk to them and try to make them stop.
The abuser would probably have to go to jail.
I'm warning you, he might be an abuser. If he hurts you, you need to get out of that relationship ASAP. If he won't leave you alone, you can file a restraining order.
First stop saying bad things about her. Second apologize for what you have said.