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been there done that, my bf is 9 hrs away with family and I get depressed when he is gone. it will be ok. stay strong, and roleplaying helps me. pretend hes there when you get sad, pretend hes cheering u up with his up lifting jokes. yeah it seems like ur going crazy but we all do it, it will be ok
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Can you win back your ex-girlfriend from a long-distance relationship even if she has a new boyfriend?
i was in a long distance relationship for 8 months with my boyfriend. We broke up because he cheated and in anger i dated someone else and we got back together not long ago...…so yes it is possible. but it depends on how strong each of you feel. i don't think so she don't want u Well you have to ask yourself how long has it been since you broke up, how long were you together and why did you break up in the first place. Does she love you, She mustn't if she has a new boy friend. As hard as it maybe you have to try and move on and forget about this person. I know what its like, I'm going through the same thing, me and my ex have been finished nearly 6 months and haven't spoken since. I know she doesn't love me, it was hard to take but I grieved the relationship and built my self up and started again. I am now dating again (nothing serious) and meeting new people and focusing on myself. You have to have a relationship with yourself. It will take time to heal your broken heart and bruised ego. Trust me its not the be all and end all even if it feels like that right now. I often think about my ex, infact I think about her every day and wish things could have been different, but I cant get her back, so I have to accept that shes gone for good. Good luck! God Bless! and it will work out for you in the long run you will see. I don't want to give you false hope matey, because it's very unlikely that you'll get her back. My suggestion is this. Try and get over her. If she misses you too and feels the same way, then maybe it'll be enough to make this relationship she's in fall down and make her think of you. It has worked before. Sadly I was the guy that she left to go back to the long distance relationship guy with - but it's possible and I wish you every luck with your quest. Remember - it's important to at least look like you've moved on. These people arn't very optimistic. Ok, I managed to win back my ex in a long distance relationship (even though I decided to blow her off at the last moment), it just took a long ammount of time. What I did was, I remained a good person and I didn't fret when she left me, I was hard enough not to appear desperate but I also managed to let her know that she was hurting me. We both managed to stay friends and she would talk about how she would date random men and women. I didn't say anything at first but then later, I talked to her about how bad I felt for knowing that I was the one that did that to her. She looked back and got a little sad. Well, as time grew on, she would grow back onto me because she would see that I am still a nice guy, but at the same time, she remembered how I wrote her poems, told her what I love about her every day, and how I always treated her like a god. She sooned coudln't find that in anybody else so she eventually started looking back at me. What really did her in, was when I met my current girlfriend. Once she saw me with another woman and how I made her happy and did those things with her instead of my ex, she really reflected on how much she missed that. On eday, she brought me into her room and sat me down, asking me to go back with her because it was a big mistake for her to let me go. How ever, I fell in love with my new girlfriend, so I politely told her that I'm not going to dump Ashley. Well, then my ex told me to cheat and I still wouldn't listen and she really regrets giving me up but that's just how it is. Anyways, I hope that you can get an understanding from this, I'm sorry if this didn't really help. Look man the situation your in sucks i know, I've been through the same stough. Me and my ex where dating for like 9 months, then she had to move. we tryed the long distance, i cheated after a couple months of that, big mistake i know, but distance causes physical loneliness. anyways this was over 4 years ago, and all though ive been in many relationships since then, ive never felt as strong for anyone else. all you can do is hope that u guys might see each other again and rekindle in the future, but don't dwell on it to much, cause the girl you thought u loved so much could be an entirely diffrent person by the time you see her again.
You can't make someone fall in love you, it will happen if you're right together, give it time, he has to love you from afar and this could be difficult for him. Just be hones…t and one day you'll know if he loves you. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- One way that my husband and I kept the romance alive during the time we were apart was to write love notes to each other. We mailed one out every week. Sometimes they were scented with perfume or cologne, because little reminders like that stimulate the senses and remind your partner of you. The anticipation grows. We also had late night phone calls of an intimate nature. It really helped us continue to be passionate towards each other, and if you aren't too embarrassed, I highly recommend it. Good luck in your relationship! I FOUND HOW TO MAKE A MAN FALL IN LOVE I found how to make my boyfriend fall in love...a behavioral method to make a man fall in love ... just try the method ..that really works !!! http://www.how-to-make-a-man-fall-in-love.com
You are in a long distance relationship and your boyfriend rather talk to your best friend what should you do?
Break up with him and work on your grammar! Break up with him and work on your grammar! Break up with him and work on your grammar!
You are in a long distance relationship but your boyfriend has changed jobs cities and now has no time to call email or sms however when you call he talks to you Why does he not call you anymore?
I think hes basically not as interested anymore. Or maybe its because your doing all the effort so hes just taking that for granted. Either way, DONT keep doing all the effo…rt if he isn't....Try cutting down on calling or smsing and if he doesnt seem conserned or doesnt do the effort to call and see why uve taken a distance, then just break it off. If he does ask why u've lessened the calls/sms/mails then discuss what your feeling. Good Luck
In the past few days you got close to another guy but you are in a long distance relationship and you love your boyfriend So is that considered as cheating on your boyfriend?
It depends what you mean by close. If you mean just talking and maybe talking about your personal life the most certainly not. If you mean pshyicaly close, then yes.
Your long distance relationship bf stops calling you and only texts saying he loves and misses you. Should you be worried?
I wouldn't think so. (I don't approve of long distance, but I never tried it)
If he's not talking, perhaps he is hiding something from you. Or it could be that he is still getting over his last relationship. If you think the latter is the case, do…n't pressure him into telling you and give it some time. If you think he is up to something, share your concerns, but don't seem angry or upset.
Little things. ---------------- my opion is that you should talk to him on the phone. i think it comes more naturally to talk and it is much easier.
What do you do when you feel like your boyfriend causes you to be sad than happy like you miss him so much and when you do talk to him ur not as happy as you use to be.?
Well first talk to him about it, and if it continues its time to move on. Remember you are not married you do not have to stay with him.
No, when texting it really should not matter where you are in the world. But to be sure, talk to your service provider to make sure there are no extra charges.
well maybe they were your first boyfriend or u really loved him and regretted breaking up with him/her.
future plans, music, hobbies, other people, there are tons of things! I suggest talking about any common intresest for you two. You can talk about anything. You should b…e able to at least.
You cry over your long distance boyfriend every night because you miss him How can you not miss him so much?
move closer maybe youl see him more?
If you love someone strong enough it will hurt if your 15 minutes away. that's how you know when your in love
Could i be pregnant i have been feeling sick and faint for the past week or so but had a period around the 7th march but have had sex before and after this and food smells are turning my stomach?
it's a possibility but if you've had your period i think that its most likely period pains for however long your on for. the food smells turning your stomach could be another …effect. if you're still unsure take 3 pregnancy tests just to be sure and if not go consult your doctor
Have been having a long distance relationship for the past 2 years in which you have only met twice and never slept together A few weeks ago you got a text from him stating that he was going to get te?
Well if he is ready then go for it. But the question right now are you ready. If you are go for it but, if you are not clear your mind and think about it. Think about the the …infections if you have or he/ she has.
U can call or text eatch other another option is chat on face book or Skype It's so important in a long distance relationship to make plans for the next time you will be… together in person. Even if that 'next date' is in 6 months time - the fact that you both know when you will get to see and touch and be in the presence of the other person is crucially important. It lends security to both parties in the relationship and creates a sense of mutual excitement and anticipation as that date grows closer. Both people feel they have something to look forward to and plan for and talk about. It creates positive tension and both parties have a building sense of energy as the date draws nearer. It also motivates the couple to focus on what qualities they can bring to the time they get together. It may see one or both parties, trying to improve their fitness, or quality of life to look and feel better in the time they have with their partner. I think that all the voice calls, Skype calls and text messages become more meaningful too, against the backdrop of an up and coming date to look forward to. Amber | Into the Soul