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Should you get marriage counseling before marriage?
It is always a good idea no matter how long you've known your fiance. These counselors go to school to learn how to help you know more about each other and how to teach you how to deal with the problems and conflicts that arise. If you are a religious person, i suggest going to your pastor for counseling or a Christian counselor, they will give you the best counseling on those subjects you haven't even thought of yet as potential problems or things that are necessary in married life.
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Love is the foundation for everything. You can't marry a person if you don't love him although in some countries there are chances that a person is set up for an arrange marri…age and eventually these couples develop love but definitely love comes first before marriage. Before you marry, you fall in love. But real love doesn't happen until you marry. It shouldn't happen before! Love should come first if you married someone before love came that would be the craziest thing a person can ever do. SO LOVE SHOULD COME FIRST! I would say love comes first because then you would know that you truly love her/him, and that you love her enough to marry her. But then once your married you should always love her/him after that. So I would say that love starts before marriage but then should never end! _____________________________________________________________ The answer is obvious, love should most definitely come first, you need a foundation to start a marriage that will be successful, if you do not love someone, why would you consider spending the rest of your life with that someone, it is important that you love the one you will spend the rest of your life with or it is pointless to marry in the first place, marriage is when two people love each other to the point they don't picture themselves with anyone else but the person there with, for the rest of there life. so it is most definite that love should come before marriage, if you want this one to work. Love should definitely come first . If you don't love each other before marriage, then how do you know it will ever happen during marriage? -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Love really comes first if you don't love each other than you can't get married. If you get married before you love each other then it will be a horrible marriage.
You seem very mature to be asking this question. Now this is a very good thing, so kudos to you! If you want kids, make sure she/ he wants kids. What they like? Dislike? Expec…tation? Do they treat you the way they should be treated? This sounds crazy, but do they have a criminal record? I enjoyed answering your question! Best of luck to you!
Answer At the least, 2-3 years or more. If it's a long distance relationship, 3-4 years. The infatuation stage in a relationship can last up to 3-6 months…. A person's true character traits (good and bad) tend to start showing up 4 months to a year into a relationship. Take the time to know this person, rushing into a legal committment will not give you security. Evem more importantly, you should have taken up a major project together, travelled with eachother, have learned how to handle disputes, agree on finances, met eachother's families and friends, and agree on having children/lifestyle. Answer If you are under 25 - at least 18 months. If you are over 25 you shouldn't need to ask the question. By that time you should know yourself well enough to know when a relationship can move to marriage. Answer Long enough to get to know each other. As you know, marriage is for life, or at least it should be and that is how one should approach it. As the saying goes, it is worse to not want to be married than it is too be married...it is not something to opt out of once one has commited themself to the other. I would also say, long enough to go to pre-marriage counseling, long enough to have some disagreements, long enough to let each other's cats out of the bag and long enough to be financially ready for the commitment. God bless you! Answer so much needed info missing but as a rule i would say at least 18 mo. the first 6 is getting to know you, the next 6 is decieding if your willing to accept all the things you found out in the first 6 and the last 6 is when you should be able to tell if its love or the idea of being in love....
Answer You are getting married, living together before the marriage is just taking the thrill and excitement out. Better get married first then live together. …
will for my view if you guys love each and you are pregnant and you are getting married for sure it dont matter if the baby comes before the marriege but you should make sure …you that you are getting married before thinking about a kid you dont wanna have kid and then have your men leave you hanging cause then he dont want the kid but it dont reallyy matter cause if you love each for real then it dont matter what comes first ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well i believe you should be married and have a good job and have all your priority's straightened out before you decide to have a family
Depends on how long it takes for you to find someone you want to marry. I'd suggest dating a person for at least half a year before you decide whether marriage is immine…nt.
After finishing high school, possibly some collage. Or even a few years after that if you would just like to enjoy being yourself and travel around.
I say a good year of trust and freindship should do it... get to know him or her well and become good friends.
Abstinence. That's what.
No you do not, but you should. 50% of marriages fail, 75% of second marriages fail. Couples going through counseling succeed by about 80%. Alot of people think there marri…age will not be the statistic, that is being careless, your marriage is not worth being careless over. Your marriage can last, you sound like your on the right track, best wishes :)
Although the circumcision should be pain free after a month, intercourse might still be painful. so I would suggest you have the circimcision at least 6 weeks before the weddi…ng.
Marriage counseling is an attempt to try and make your marriage better.
I would suggest that you go for a marriage counseling before you get married. It really helps when you apply what you learn... Well if you ever needed to have a counseling fo…r your marriage at any point maybe your boyfriend or husband isn't the one for you! No offence because this is coming from a young age I told my mother the same thing!
Everything which you fancy such as sweets, chocolates, KFC etc because when your married, all the things you like will be a no no.
You can find marriage counselling online as well as at any therapist. It's better to go in person because you can really get a better feel for your problems and get better hel…p.
To ensure that there are no genetic anomalies in either partner which would produce damaged offspring.