This girl likes you but she need to get divorce how long should you wait?

Answer 1

Isn't that nice...this girl likes you. And she must be the kind of girl anyone would be proud to know since she is a married woman and is messing around with other men - YOU, for example. If, I were you, I wouldn't wait-period. First, if she hasn't already done anything she could easily reconcile with her spouse. It happens all the time. Second, getting involved with anyone who is not truly "available" is foolish. Do you want to make the emotional investment of hanging around waiting for her to get her act together (when it may never happen)? Do you want to get involved with a girl that so easily vows to love, honor and respect one guy - and is now out screwing around on him. If she can do it to him, she'll do it to you too. Her character and morality are certainly in question. There are a lot of good women out there - that have the values important to a relationship - who are single and available to work on a relationship-and who don't have a spouse that may show up at your place sometime and punch your lights out! Stay away from married women - period.

If you think this girl is worth it - tell her that even though you are attracted to her - it is not fair for her to expect you to keep yourself available for her when she is not available for you, and that you are not going to continue a relationship with her until she is legally divorced. Tell her you would love to see her again once the divorce is final. Ask her to call you then - not before. Tell you you wish her the best, but that neither of you can predict the future and you can not put your life on hold. If she cares about you, she will understand that and want the best for you too. If she begs you to stick with her - you'll know that she is selfish and self-centered and has her best interests at heart, not yours.