maybe 19
In Texas, if a child is 14 or older, he/she can choose to live with a grandparent as long as permission is given by the custodial parent.
In Washington state, a 14-year-old child cannot choose which parent to live with independently. However, if one parent consents to the child living with a grandparent and the arrangement is in the best interests of the child, the court may consider the child's preference when making a custody decision. Ultimately, the court will prioritize the well-being and care of the child.
hi. what age can my son chose to live, with which parent
yes, as long as the parents agree to allow their child to live with their grandparents its fine as long as the grandparents can support the child.
18 unless a court ordered custody modification or transfer is initiated and approved.
it is up to you if you want to grant your child permission to chose which parent to live with, in the state of NJ they do not give minors this power
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As long as you are a minor you are not allowed to decide who you will live with.
You have to file a child in need of care motion in the other state.
Minor's are not allowed to choose with whom they wish to live, although the judge may speak with the child and take his or her opinions into consideration when making custodial decisions. Likewise, the grandparent who has temporary custody cannot release the minor into the custody of any other person including a parent without first obtaining permission from the court.
age 18 see link below