What should you do when your boyfriend or girlfriend starts to act as if he doesn't care about you?

Answer 1

If you really love this person, the answer is simple: ask. No way you can go on feeling like that. Choose the right moment to talk, though:

1) When you're sure he/she's got enough time and can't come out saying "Listen, I've got to go because..." while you're in the middle of sharing your fears;

2) Avoid using "You" in the beginning of the sentences. Try changing what you have to say with "I". This is necessary in order to prevent him/her to put himself/herself on the defensive;

3) If he/she replies saying it's your fault somehow, don't shut the door on his/her arguments. He/she might be right.

Good Luck.

Answer 2

If he doesnt really care, then it's probably not going to be a long and meaningful relationship. That being said, if your happy in a casual relationship, go for it, it makes you happy. If you don't want that, I suggest you leave him and start looking elsewhere (just don't expect him to change)

Answer 3

nothing realy, hes just trying to show you hes a real man. what kind of man doesnt act tough. he want you to think he could be with someone better but chose you in stead.... so good relationship.if that's no the case,, love him more

Answer 4

If your boyfriend doesn't care about you, you should dump him. If he doesn't care, you are wasting your time. Find someone who loves you for you and cares about you. Not someone who doesn't.

Answer 5

Move on with your life and find someone who does and tell them that u need someone who cares about u! becareful

Answer 6

Let him go or tell him how you feel and then if he says he'll change then he really cares about you and if he acts like he doesnt care let him go he's not worth it.

Answer 7

That's obvious that he wants to get rid of you, be smart enough and respect yourself by leaving him first.

Answer 8

i personally would dump him.if he doesnt care about you why should you right?