Basically, there are three responses to this sort of thing:
Apologize for keeping this a secret, tell her she is not the only one that can enjoy nice underwear, be honest about how you feel, remind her that the two of you are in this relationship together and have to work together to deal with it, and be ready to answer her questions.
When she calms down, assure her that a surprising number of men enjoy wearing women's underwear, and it's doesn't mean they're gay!
Only if she feels comfortable about it.
Offer to buy him panties that fit him in whatever color and design he likes. Remember, cross dressers are not necessarily gay. Make him dress up complete as a girl everyday.
a man is cheeting on his wife and she catches him in the act.
Wearing pantyhose with panties is a personal preference, so there isn't a "wrong" or "right" side to the discussion. It is just what she prefers.
just tell her you want to wear panties because they make you feel good. it's just underwear.
Answer75% of men admit to wearing or having worn panties, wearing panties or anything else for that matter does not make you bi or gay, i am straight and i love my panties and wear them 24/7 so comfyI wear women panties every day,my wife likes to see me in panties. They make many styles and colors. They feel so much more confortable than boxers. Even my doctor has seen my wearing panties when I go for my yearly medical exam. She just smiles
If she is okay with it and you are okay with it there should be no problem.
You ask her. She may be willing, she may not
There is no way you can tell if your wife has semen in her panties and you need to study up on sexual education. Just like men, women discharge and it can be clear to yellow in color. Be very wary of accusing your wife of cheating on you by mistaking discharge for semen.
it can be worn either way but you may want to put the panties over them so when you need the bathroom you will not have to undo the nylons to get your panties down. or you can keep them over the panties and when you have to go just slide the panties down to the tops of the nylons and go that way that is the way I do it. I hate to have to re clip nylons in a public rest room
A lot of the practices of men and women around masturbaton are done in 'secret'....like "snooping" through a wife's panties. In a way, the secrecy can increase the thrill leading up to masturbation. You should, however, be careful that your secret activities don't feel invasive or disrespectful to your wife. How would she feel if she knew? If you know it would bother her, don't risk invading her privacy. BUT, your FRIEND's wife / panties are off-limits. She is NOT YOUR wife! And it is a violation of not only the woman's privacy but your friendship with the male. Don't do it. If caught, you'll pay with both your friend AND HIS wife. Same with female friends of your wife--- it is not appropriate and you'll pay with your wife AND her friends!
You could get any kind but pick something that's red or black.