Look inside yourself. (Theorectically of course.) What comes to your mind when you think of your boyfriend's brother? Do you think, "Aw, yeah! He's totally HOT!" or do you think things like, "Awww! My boyfriend's brother is soo sweet!" Of course I am speaking in general terms. If you feel like your feelings for your bf's brother are more lust than love, then it's just best to ignore these feelings, even though they are deep. If it is love, then what kind of love is it? The rest is up to you, but think to yourself, is ditching your boyfriend for his brother worth all the heartache it will cause?
If you really loved your boyfriend, then you wouldn't be attracted to anybody else. Maybe you should break up with him, since it's obviously not a relationship that you want to be in. That doesn't mean you should go out with his friend, any guy who would go out with his friends recent ex wouldn't make a reliable boyfriend.
Talk it over with ur friend and see if it is ok with her. She is ur BFF after all! Then both of u can figure out what the best way to ask him out!
if you really like this guy, even though he is your boyfriends best friend, you have to let you r boyfriend go. if you like him more then your boyfriend, its ok.
Make a choice.
It could mean that you would like to.
not really. if u wanna go out with them like as boy friend and girl friend ask them.
well to be honest you should dump ur boyfriendunfaithfull.
<Amanda>
you should try asking your boyfriend to talk to him
If this is your current boyfriends best friend it would be best to take some time to yourself to sort out your feelings as you cannot possibly be commited to one while having feelings for another - especially his best friend.
maybe you dont like her or maybe it was just a dream
Having a conversation with your boyfriend and his bestfriend about what bothers you about his best friend may be a good way to cope.
Then you choose the one that you truly love. If ou love the best friend then tell the boyfriend. Don't cheat. If you still like the boyfriend then tell the best friend in a nice way that you are not interested.
Because you slept with your boyfriends best friend.