What is a good thing that you can say to a girl that you hate to put her in her place and to let her know that she could get hurt if she crosses you?

Answer 1

Since you are likely to be the master of your own destiny, the captain of your own fate, I recognize you are likely to disregard the following advice. In the event you are still reading and do read to the end, perhaps there is hope.

You have two options:

First, if the girl has done something to you that violates a law or a school policy, snitch her out.

Okay, not likely to do that, are you?

So, second, you say nothing.

Unless she has contributed to the end of life of someone you hold dear, you do not have a good enough reason to "hate" her. You may be annoyed with her, frustrated perhaps, but I suspect you do not know the meaning of the word hate.

That being said, you need to understand that she is responsible and accountable for her behavior, as you are responsible and accountable for yours. So, if you assault her, you can be held criminally responsible, no matter your age. How that plays out may be a matter of your age, or not.

If however you say something to the girl to precipitate a fight (Look in your school library or ask your social studies teacher about the "doctrine of fighting words"), you could be held even more accountable for any violent action between you and her.

So, the safest course of action for you, and potentially the one of greatest satisfaction, is to ignore her. Give her apathy. Do not acknowledge her or her existence. Give her nothing but silence.

The Chinese have thousands of old sayings. One of my favorite goes like this:

The best revenge is a life well lived.

Live your life and show her that no matter what she does, she doesn't mean enough to affect you. Get away from this "I hate her," and keep telling yourself that she just does not matter.