What should you do if people have been telling you that your boyfriend is cheating but you love him very much and your heart says he is not cheating or lying to you?

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you could either be happy with your decision or you could make OTHERS happy. you just have to choose . ... not between friends and boyfriend but in what you should believe.pray for it. :)

Trust is a big issue in a relationship..You cant be in a relationship without it.. If you trust your boyfriend with all your heart and you don't think he is cheating or lying then there isn't really anything to do.. However, if your mind is making you wonder whether the accusations are true, ask the people pointing the finger at him. Find out if what they are saying is possilbe and do a little detective work:) If he's saying he's going to shoot pool for example, ask where at... Call the poolhall and ask them if they can put him on the phone... Have a good excuse for calling in case he's actually there and gets on the phone.. Or suprise him and show up to hang out.. If he's not there, that could be one clue...Also ask yourself if these people accusing him could just want to break you two up.. Are they people YOU trust and care about you?

AnswerWhy would people say it if it was'NT true. If people can even think this about your boyfriend then he's obviously not thr right time of man to have a relationship with, Your heart says what you want to hear, But its your heart that will get broken if you stay with him. Save yourself a lot of trouble and heart ache and get rid of him now! As hard as it may be it will be harder if you carry on, wait till you get pregnant or married then he leaves you, or leaves you for another women! Answerwho would you believe....your own boyfriend..or a practically a stranger...tough question eh?? Answerask him about it and tell him what people have been saying if he was at least he'll know that people have been telling you and if he's not he'll not cheat AnswerHe's cheating. Your heart knows it or this wouldn't even be an issue.

You're afraid to confront him.

I say - burn his ass good. Break up with him without even telling HIM that you're breaking up, just stop calling. But, be sure to tell all your big mouth "friends". It will get back to him through those big mouths that you two have broken up, and he'll be the last to know. Boom. Instant karma. It's quite lovely...

Obviously though, we are two different animals you and me. If I were your kind of gentle little animal, I suppose I would just be sure to always have condom protected sex with him, since you don't know for sure whether or not he's dipping his stick in other women.

AnswerSweety, its the source you have to worry about. If someone you know tells you that your bf is cheating... they are probaly not lying to you...think about it this way...who really has enough time on their hands to plot on ruining your relationship?Just make sure you keep and eye on him and don't ask him until you are a little bit more sure....However the chances are that if it barks like a dog...well you know the rest Good tip for a fast answerMany of the posters are correct and the last post gave you really good advice "consider the source!" If you want a fast answer to this question the person that comes up to you and says that your boyfriend is cheating say, "Let's settle this right now! Come with me and we're to have a one-on-one with my boyfriend!" You can bet the source of this information will back-off! If they really care about you and the fact your boyfriend is cheating they would have no problem facing him on a one-to-one. Sometimes we have to take risks on a person and sometimes they work out and sometimes they don't.

Good luck hon

I have gone through something similar as this and I can tell you that (Good Tip for a fast answer) is right on the money.There are people in the world that get jealous or want want you have or for other unknown reasons.If they actually care about you and are being truthful then they will have no problem confronting your boyfriend and saying"I seen you with her". If they refuse to confront him with you there to witness it, well then you got your answer. In my case they were lying. I think they just got a kick out of causing as much mischief as they could. They offered more excuses as to why they couldn't confront him and just disappeared from our life.So in the long run I got my answer. How well do you know these people telling you this? I can say we did learn a lesson from our situation.We do not trust people as easily anymore.Keep one eye and ear open and you will find out the truth.

Good luck