What should you do if your daddy always make excuses?
Excuses for what? For why he always has the remote control instead of you or mom? Or why it's been a year and a half and he still can't find work? It makes a difference.
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What should you do if your not engaged because your boyfriend of 8 years keeps saying he will propose but always has excuses?
It would behoove you to get to the crux of the matter. He has managed to keep you at bay for 8 years. The only way he can continue to do this is if you let him. I don't think …an ulitmatum is the way to go because you can show a person better than you can tell them. And even if he did take the bait, at the first sign of difficulty in the relationship he will resent you because he didn't really want to get married in the first place. What he has shown you for the last 8 years is that he does not respect the value you've said to have regarding marriage. What you have shown him over the last 8 years is that you are willing to compromise your values to stay in a relationship with him. Thus, there is no real motivation for him to move to what you view as the next level of commitment because your actions have already said that you will take down. After 8 years, I am sure the two of you are deeply entrenched in each other's lives, property, bank accounts etc. I would have a conversation with him and tell him point blank what the wants, needs and desires are for the future of the relationship. Prior to doing that, you will want to have carefully thought out your next move. You will have to have a made up mind and be prepared to chuck the last 8 years (or rack up 8 more in the same situation) and get on with your life with or without him. But I get the feeling that if after 8 years and you don't have anything but excuses, proposal and marriage are not on the horizon either. Answer I think he just doesnt want to get married b/c that is a big commitment so guys are afraid to get married even if you dated for a long time. You need to tell him how you feel. Answer I think after 8 years and your boyfriend has not proposed yet, he will never do it.Men often lie, you will learn that as you get older and wiser. If he had any intensions to marry you he would of pop the question already. Do not depend on someone "you think is the one" When most likely he is not. you have to think of yourself gain some respect and confidence and move on, most likely you will find your true soul mate and live happily ever after and one day you will look back to all this a realize that your present boyfriend has been a big waste of time, and that you should of left a long time ago. Im sure he loves you but he is not in love with you if he truly was in love he wouldn't lead you on for so long. ( think about it) Dont make a move unless you are going to stick with it 100% because it will blow up in your face and he will take another 8 years. OPEN YOUR EYES AND MAKE THE RIGHT MOVE. Good Luck jcc35
Leave him, but make sure to get that child support!
What should you do if a guy isn't bothered to meet up with you he always makes excuses when you ask him if he wants to go somewhere he rings you mostly when he bored but you reli like him?
I realize that it will be hard, but don't mess with the guy anymore. He obviously doesn't feel the same way towards you, and is just using you when he doesn't have anything el…se to do. Find someone that will want to meet up with you, and that will call you just to talk all the time, and you will be perfectly happy
For school if you're late, for home if you're in trouble or for any other reason whatsoever, there are loads of excuses to fob you off but you must learn to take the blame som…etimes and realise that what you did is wrong by taking a punishment(however harsh) for you're actions.
What should you do if you and your boyfriend have been together for 8 years and are still not engaged and he keeps saying he will propose but always has excuses such as not having enough money?
That probably means he's not quite sure if he really wants to propose to you.
He probably don`t want any kids that`s all I can tell you.. ask him, we cannot speak for him talk it out with him
say u picked her up on the street or ur friend set u 2 up =) (dont we all want an answers to that)
maybe is because he/she is not interested, but don't want to hurt your feelings..
cause....we want to get laid! =]
Say you have other friend's party you have to attend to. or a family business Or if you're bad at this, just say you can't make it and that you're busy.
where you goind? over to the faris whell
then your life will not be hiding behind excuses and everybody will know who you really are in life
They're lazy and they probably never had fun exercising because they've only done it at school.
Yes. No doubt. The same goes for doing the laundry.
If the excuses seem legit then try and plan things ahead of time before your friend makes other plans. If the excuses are way too "out there" then find a new friend.
You should use the "I" message; "I feel ______, when you _______, please ________ ( I use Stop)!" Because they may not know they're bullying. Or say, "Hey! Why'd you do th…at! No one is going to like you if you keep being a bully!" And run. If they follow you, I guess try to get to the nearest adult you can trust and tell them what's going on. You're not being a tattle-tale, you're saving yourself and others. And if the bully is there and you can't get out of there and tell an adult, use the "I" message, and I'm sorry if that doesn't work, but please, TELL A TRUSTED ADULT IF YOU HAVE PROBLEMS WITH BULLIES!!!
Juliet seems to have only one really good excuse to get out of the house--to go to confession. And fortunately, it is also a great excuse to visit Friar Lawrence in order to a…sk for advice, get married, etc.