Probably not. Depends on the girl.
WELL IT THINK IT DEPENDS ON WHY SHE LEFT BUT GENERALLY SPEAKING I THINK SO THERE WAS SOMETHING THAT MADE HER STAY AS LONG AS SHE DID AND IF YOU NEEDS TO ABUSE SOMEONE OR SOMETHING AND SHE FOUND THAT SHE COULD DO THAT WITH YOU THEN WHEN THE URGE SRIKES THEY WILL BE BACK..IF NOT THEN SHE WILL MOVE ON TO A WEAKER PERSON TO ABUSE... WHICH MAY BE A GOOD THING FOR YOU.
They had a great, personal relationship, even taking walks together in the garden.
alex makes $2.00 for every dog she walks on the weekands. complete the function table to show the relationship between the number of dogs alex walks and the amount of money that she makes.
If it bothers you and you told him so and he persists - then it is abuse. You bet it's abusive! Please ditch this guy! If someone really loves you they trust you and there should be no problem with each of you going out with friends. This guy is on an ego trip and is a control freak. Don't allow it! You are in control of yourself and your future. Run! It's a selfish and controlling expectation on the part of the boyfriend and his insistence on curtailing your freedom while maintaining his own does not sound like a healthy adult relationship. Mind you, a "relationship" which involves other parties on either or both sides doesn't amount to much of a relationship -- unless that's what you wish to settle for. At the end of the day, it's your call. Nobody can abuse you unless you let them abuse you. The gentleman in question may well "insist" on his way, but if his way is not for you and if he is not prepared to respect your way (ie that you both date others), then you're venturing into abusive territory should you give in to HIS wishes (against your own) in order to remain involved with this man. "Abuse" is when a stranger walks over and slaps you in the face. But where we unwittingly give over our power to another in order to win or hold onto their "love" or whatever validation they may provide, we are in effect facilitating our own "abuse" by giving in to others' unacceptable expectations and thus eroding our SELVES. "Abusive" or just plain "selfish", remember that YOU are in the driver's seat as far as YOUR wishes and limits are concerned, and it is up to YOU to set your boundaries and to ensure that they are respected -- ie. if you are not satisfied: DON'T TALK, WALK -- and keep walking!
He could be in denial of there being any issues at all
Realize that life is too short to spend any more time focusing on someone who obviously doesn't care about you.
tell him "sorry but u said u dont like me, remember?" and walk away.
relationship conflict. apex.
He needs to talk to you a lot, first of all be like friends, then develop into a relationship. You can tell he likes you back if he always starts up the conversation. You always see him looking at you, or he walks with you, and laughs at you.
No one has the right to tell anyone to "get a backbone" and move out. It's an ignorant thing to say and even more so being a Talk Show Host because they are suppose to do their homework before their program. If they did, they would realize that leaving an abusive situation isn't as simple for many women as it looks. Until a person walks in the victim's shoes they have no right to make such comments. However, in this day and age there is absolutely no reason for a woman to stay in an abusive relationship. I volunteer for a Women's Abuse Center" and there is plenty of help for the victim and they can even get legal counsel and are also kept in a "safe house" or "Transition House" until they can get psychological counseling to undo the brain-washing techniques the abuser has caused, and also legal counsel to get rid of the abuser. After that they will even help the person to find ways to better their education or get a job and become independent. I know many women who have managed to get away from their abuser and are living on their own. It is NOT safe to stay in an abusive situations and it's proven often. Some men get so angry they can beat their victims half to death, cripple them and even sometimes murder is involved. If there are children involved it's all the more reason to get out of this abusive relationship. Believe it or not a victim of abuse does has the power to change her destiny. Good luck Marcy
After being in a violent domestic relationship, even though the victim has managed to get away, they are still emotionally (possibly physically) scarred and need to seek psychological help to give them the tools to learn how to choose the men they want in their life and what men not to choose. Statistics show that many women go back to their abusive partner or choose another man that is abusive. Trauma such as violence against women in any form will hinder their chance of being in a good relationship because of the fear they felt in the violent relationship previously and that is all the more reason they need to be counseled. Without counseling they will not complete themselves as a free and whole woman. Answer You take some time to just be you and to remember the things you used to enjoy when you were safe. When I left, I just did the sensible things to get started again--basically getting up in the morning and asking myself what I wanted to do. Just one thing at a time, nothing hard. I took a lot of walks in the park, went to movies, read, watched TV and so on. Wait a few years to even think about dating, since you don't want to rebound. If you are sad and cannot make decisions, find a therapist who you can talk with--you are probably okay, just need the talk. Also, see if your Dr. will prescribe an antidepressant to help you focus.
No, walks do not count as an at-bat.