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I am answering this from very personal experience! When I was 14 I met this "amazing" man who was 22. He was a good old farm boy and respected his mama. I dated him for a few years and was sure we were going to get married. All of a sudden he started asking me to do things I was not comfortable with. I vowed to be a virgin till my wedding day, but he was on a mission to change that! He also tried very hard to keep me away from people my own age. He paid for everything for me, even to home school, I think it was to reduce his risk of replacement. My parents HATED the idea of me being with an older guy, but chocked it up to infatuation. They watched us like hawks and at the time I couldn't understand why they wouldn't just want me to be happy? Afterall, he had a good job and had already went to college! I loved the idea of being "secure" at such a young age, I thought I had it all, but then I met someone my own age! I went back to school for the 10th grade and met a very nice boy--which is what I should have had all along, a BOY! Moral of the story was the guy was a real pervert! Any man who courts a much younger girl/woman needs to have his head examined! Guys like that are in for the challenge and the prize, a young girls virginity is the ultimate! It took me getting to the age of 22 and looking at 14 year olds and saying "what a sick pervert!" Most men who persue young women have some sort of sexual disfunction and or inappropriate fetishes, even if they seem kind and sweet. I still spoke with my ex-old-guy until just a couple of years ago, and I realized after I grew up that he didnt really love me or take "us" seriously, I was just "young and easy to mold". He wanted to start me young and turn me into the "perfect" wife! Just like a parent would teach a child what they value, he was trying to parent me into a spouse!!! I am now 26 and a parent, and I would chop the unit right off of ANY sick old dude that was trying to date my Daughter! Trust me, you wont Truly know what you want out of life until you are at least 25 anyway!!
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How old should you be before your parents let you date?
c my parents dont like me dating guys but i date them anyways
Do people like the idea of cell phones?
teens do - teens like it for texting your friends and also parents like it to keep in contact with their kids and/or other contacts. parents also dont like it because of the un-involvment with their kids/teens.
Can you spank other peoples kids when babysitting?
no not if its not ok with their parents and you dont have the right to spank them if they arent your kids!.
Why do parents dont lets there kids say bad word?
because saying bad words are taboo in the world so your parents were raised like that
What do you do when your friends dont like the guy you are dating?
if i was u i would ask them y first and then talk to your parents about it or say to bad so sad im not going to break up with him cause u dont like him
Does Vanessa Hudgens like kids?
No she doesn't have kids she is NOT pregnant !!She is not married either she is too young & her parents forbidden her from havingkids in such a YOUNG age !!
Should your forbid your child from dating someone you don't like?
it depends on why you dont like the person they are dating and why they do, you should also try and see why they do what they do that you dont like about them.
Why do MOST kid do the stuff most parents dont want them to?
Because they are stupid and hate you most kids are usualy not that smart but they usualy like there parents not hate them they might be going through a phase or being a jerk sometimes they dont no there doing something wrong and some kids are spoiled and get mad when they dont get what they want the odds are is that we all have done something that are parents didnt want us to do
Is it mess up to be in a religion where you don't have as much privelegdes as the other kids and can't have a date until your married?
wow harsh. if you dont like it talk to your parents. dont do anything that will get you busted. tell your parents how you feel maybe that might work. CHAL
I have a Boyfriend but we dont act like we are dating what do i do?
heytell your boy that are dating .. not attending a family function
When kids try out for something shouldn't parents like that?
Yes they should be proud because parents like to see they're kids do something
Why are children not exactly like their parents?
because parents dont understand children and what they like
