Contact any local branch of the Veterans Administration.
PA sacrificed 3,144 men in Vietnam. PA no doubt has their names listed.
The names of the 14,838 dead US Marines are listed on the Vietnam Veterans Memorial wall.
If your uncle was in the US Military (civilians are not listed on the wall); obtain documentation and contact the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Wall office.
I don't think we are considered combat veterans, but we do get 5 point Veterans preference because the Berlin Army of Occupation medal is listed under campaigns that qualify under OPM's Vet Guide. Here's the link: http://www.opm.gov/StaffingPortal/vgmedal2.asp
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Nothing happens
Yes, Penn Foster is approved for Veterans Education Benefits. Check with your local or regional VA office. Below is a link for information listed on Veterans Education Benefits.
If you're in the US and the parents are not married, then no, he can't be listed without him being aware of it and agreeing to it OR the court ordering it (after paternity has been established). If the parents are married, then yes he can be listed (because he is the presumed father). And this answer holds true rather the father is a minor or an adult.
yes, he can pay
The mother. If she dies, her parents get custody.
No such site or list exists.
In the U.S., yes, unless proven otherwise.