It depends on how the relationship ended.
- if you broke up with her : tell her that you had been missing her and wanted to get back together with her and that even though you had broken up with her you realized that you still loved her.(if you do, if you dont do not lie and say you do be honest)
-mutual breakup: tell her that maybe this is a sign that you two were meant to be, or should give your love a second chance.
- if she broke up with you: tell her you want to be in the her and the baby's life and that you just want whats best for her and the baby.
breakups are hard and they are even worse when you find out your pregnant. My boyfriend had broken up with me for another girl and i didnt tell him about the baby. I wanted him to be with me for me and not just cause of the baby. I talked to him about our relationship and where we might have gone wrong. He ended up telling me that he was miserable and that he still loved me. Now we've been married for 2 years and have a beautiful baby boy.
The question is not entirely clear. A dream about HAVING the ex boyfriend's baby would be different from dreaming about a baby the ex boyfriend had by someone else.
"How do you get your ex-boyfriend back in your love life even though he is married now?
by talking to them and having it!
Slim.
you say its my life not yours, if i want to get back with my ex, i will get back with my ex so if you are going to hold a grudge about it lump it
There is no doubt that there is always a bond between the mother and father of a baby whether married or not. He is your 'ex' for a good reason so remember those reasons and realize that the baby comes first and you must do what is right for that baby. There a thousands and thousands of single mothers out there that manage to raise a child and often they meet someone in their life that loves them and their child. Your ex is the father, but because he is your ex you had your reasons or he deserted you when you were pregnant and you should concentrate on that aspect and move forward in your life to get the best things out of life for you and your baby. Having a baby changes women's hormones and being a new mother can be over whelming so don't be afraid to reach out and ask for help from family members.
you cant have her back.
The baby probably symbolizes the marriage and life that you and your ex had expected to produce together. Seeing the baby soil him illustrates your feeling that he is getting what he deserves.
Talk with him openly and honestly. Be monogamous. Simplify your life.
Yes, it is wrong to want a baby with your ex boyfriend. He's a waste of skin because he's cheated and lied to you. Grow up and start maturing! Inwardly you know that by having a baby with your boyfriend will only make matters worse because then you have brought another little life into the picture and your ex boyfriend may not want the child. To get pregnant on purpose to hold the man you love is a cruel and selfish thing to do, not only to him, but the baby. There is no assurance that having a baby will keep him with you and he could very well resent you for it and the relationship would probably break up. When young single women start talking about having a baby the young man generally heads for the hills.
No one know if anyone would get back with their ex, it is their choice and their life.
"How do you get back with your ex-boyfriend back in your love life even though he is married now? You don't. You leave him alone - he's a married man.