You and her should go to your local sexual health clinic or mental health clinic and talk about what you both want and what is best option to take.

You should see your doctor or a sexual-health clinic.

If you want to be tested for STD's then you can go to your normal doctor or a sexual health clinic. A sexual health clinic such as Planned Parenthood is best as it's not your usual doctor so less embarrassment and it is convenient to check out your local sexual health resource centre.

Is pregnancy possible? If not, go see a doctor or sexual health clinic.

Whilst there is no specific resource dedicated to the listing of gay doctors, if one wishes to see a practitioner sympathetic to the sexual health needs of gay men they should contact their nearest sexual health clinic.