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After five years of marriage why would a person want to have an affair?
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∙ 15y ago
Why an affair? I can not tell if the writer is a wife or a husband. But if you are a wife, your husband is looking for something better than you! He thinks that he deserves better, because he is smarter, better-looking and generally more attractive than you. In other words, he thinks that he is poorly matched. Let me assure you, most extra-marital affairs don't work out! It might take a while, but eventually he will discover that his new love is flawed, that that new person in his live will make demands, or, if she does not make demands is just an empty-headed, lips-puckering blond. What else can I tell you. You might want to take him back or you might not. That depends on you. But one thing I can assure you: he will keep on looking. More on "options and affairs" in the book reference on my Bio Page.
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If your wife of 30 years contracted an STD and you test negative and this would be her 3rd affair in this marriage What would you do?
Save yourself the future agony. Leave!
Have been married 45 years cheated on husband second year of marriage Now all he does after all these years want you explain why you had the affair?
why dont you tell him why you had the affair and then he might back off abit
Isn't it time to separate or divorce if after 3 years your marriage can't be rebuild anymore because of his affair?
If you have tried counseling, then maybe there is nothing left to save. If you are a person of faith, try praying for guidance.
If he cheated once in thirty years of marriage will he commit to the other woman he had the affair with?
I doubt it especially if kids are involved....but it is possible.
She did not tell you she had an affair for 2 years prior to your marriage you found she met and had sex with him once a few days after the marriage Can you trust herCan she repeat it What should you d?
she does it right after the marriage she going to do it again you should prob end it before you get hurt
Should you leave your husband of 30 years after his affair?
If your husband has never had an affair before this then no, you should not leave him. Some men 40 plus go through 'Andropause' (some men different than others) which is similar to women's menopause. The man can be moody; depressed and feels old and would like to reach back into his past to see if he is still attractive to the opposite sex and all the while they are unaware of what an affair will do their wife if she should find out. Although cheating is never right 'to err is human.' If you and your husband can sit down and communicate to improve your marriage or see a marriage counselor that is better than ending 30 years of marriage. There are many people who have gone through what you are going through and their marriage has become stronger.
Should you ignore your husband after he cheated and had an affair?
To be honest, if it was the first one, you should give him another chance, and if it doesn't work out again, then just ditch him. Also if the affair happened early out in the marriage (1-5 Years of being Married/Together) then I personally think that he would most likely do it again.
What is the definition or meaning of Affair?
an affair is when a guy and a women are married and either the guy is secretly seeing someone else or its the other way around.ANSWER:Affair is a relationship with another person who is not your husband or wife. Affair is not a one night stand relationship that you can go home and act like nothing happen. Affair is a relationship that will last months or maybe years because the person who's having an affair do fall in love with the other woman or other man. There are two kinds of "Affair", one is Emotional affair where a spouse become close to the other person who is not the spouse. It brings two person very close because they can talk about anything, and they can only share it to each others.Physical affair is all about intimacy with feelings, because they are more closer and love each others. Physical Affair is dangerous to but not like emotional. emotional affair is what breaks and destroy marriage or end up having divorce.
Why was the poet shy about marraige?
T. S. Eliot said he was too shy and unpracticed for either marriage or a mild affair. He believed that he was not prepared or ready for the commitment of marriage and it was not until he was well into his adult years that he was married.
What do you do if your husband has had an affair for 4 years with one of your best friends and you find out that your husband is the father of a child born out of this affair?
Leave him and her behind. If they wanted to be with each other they should have come to you and told you about their affair and not keep it in the dark. Seek a lawyers advice on divorce. Your marriage to me is not salvageable because of the length of the affair and the fact that there is now a love child involved.
What is the legal marriage age of boys in India?
The legal marriage age for boys in India is 21 years.
Why would a husband cheat on his wife after 29 years of marriage?
because he can
