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This is a tough subject.
Many individuals who experience abuse "lock away" memories, emotions, etc. associated with the abuse. However, to fully heal from abusive experiences, one needs to deal with these experiences. It's tough and painful, but talking about the experiences with a loved one, counselor, or clergyman can be a very healing experience.
The most important thing is to assure the victim of abuse that the actions weren't his/her (his in this case) fault, and that you'd like to go through the healing process with him, wherever it takes the two of you.
Perhaps talking with a psychologist can help you understand the situation better, and give the psychologist a 'better rapp' with your boyfriend.
This is a very tough place to be, but ultimately, you cannot make your boyfriend talk about these experiences. You can, however, be supportive and loving. It's important to understand healing doesn't come overnight, and that it will take an extreme, and very profound, trust before this subject will be breached.
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What happens when your boyfriend doesnt talk to you unless you talk to him first?
hes a homo
If your boyfriend is mentally and physically abusive and blames it on his anger problems and his family situation should you have hope he'll change with his counseling?
well does your boyfriend abuse you? jw.. but you kinda should hope he would change in counseling. and of this doesnt help you need a close friend to talk to you about this:)
What should you do if your boyfriend doesnt talk to you?
Dont forget him. You need to talk to him, tell him how you feel about how he is treating you. :)
How do you know when your boyfriend wants to be left alone?
Ignors you and doesnt talk to you.
How do you talk in front of a class when your ex boyfriend's best friends are in that class?
doesnt matter if there in it or not. just talk. hes you EX boyfriend. who cared what he thinks.
How would you know if your boyfriend is over his past?
if he doesnt talk about it much, doesnt bring it up during conversation.
Can an abusive boyfriend forgive infidelity?
No. Don't tell him. If he is abusive I'm sure he will hurt you. If you need to get it off your head go and talk to someone but please don't tell him.
Why is a girl scared to talk to her boyfriend sometimes and acts shy?
She is probably trying to be flirty. If she is actually afraid to talk to him then maybe he is abusive or she is hiding something from him.
How do you know whether your girlfriend has another boyfriend or not?
you know when she doesnt talk to you that much and she doesnt let you hug her or kiss her and she runs away alot that's when you know she has another boyfriend
How can you tell if your boyfriend wants to break up?
if he is always inching away from you. If he doesnt pay much attention to you, or doesnt talk to you alot.
Does your boyfriend still love you even if he doesnt talk to you?
it means he doesnt love you.... or in other words hes attracted to someone else..
Your boyfriend is really shy and doesnt even talk to you hug you and you never hold hands your relationship is getting nowhere What can you do and say?
i have the same issue with my boyfriend. if i was you, i would talk to him what is his problem and how you could fix it. i did that.
