yes.usually if your fifteen or older
In Mexico a minor can choose which parent to live with at the age of 14.
maybe 19
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As long as you are a minor you are not allowed to decide who you will live with.
it is up to you if you want to grant your child permission to chose which parent to live with, in the state of NJ they do not give minors this power
age 18 see link below
When they are 18.
Minor children have little recourse in deciding which parent they want to live with. They do, however have the right to express their preference/feelings to the judge.
No. A single parent can live with whoever they want as long as that person is not harmful to the child.
No, I'm afraid being almost 18 is not enough.
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It is a common misconception that children can chose which parent they want to live with when they reach a certain age. But the bottom line is, while a judge may question the child to see if he or she does have a preference and, if so, why, it is still up to the judge - not the child.